When someone breaks your heart, first you are shocked. Someone will say that you are heartbroken and you will examine the words break and heart and heartbroken and you immediately decide that it's inaccurate. You feel pain in the region of your heart and you think it's your heart breaking but one's heart doesn't really break, something else does- Faith. You stop believing.
And what do you do next?....get an insurance?..oh holy crap?!
2007-02-25 18:00:21 · 9 answers · asked by Benj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand the difficulty understanding the word heartbreak...
the word was 1st coined to describe what us humans call loneliness,see they did an examination for 1 month on 'what people really want' so as an exercise they found a volunteer who if agreed would be given everything he/she ever wanted BUT there are conditions 1.you cannot leave the house. 2.windows must be shut 3.no phone calls 4.you must remain by yourself
the individual completely agreed for 1month.
after a week he/she wanted to look out the window,after 2weeks he/she wants to make a phone call,after 3weeks the person starts to becoming severely depressed,and after 3weeks an half the person starts to become 'catatonic' means(he/she senses have shutdown on the verge of madness)....this proven theory explains that even if human beings are given everything they ever wanted but with no one to share it with its worth 'nothing' never give up on love even if you think it gave up on you..good luck
2007-02-25 19:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by lucky 7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is made up of meetings and partings that is the way of it. Some we pass like ships in the night. Others stay a while and make an impression on us. A very small number we become infatuated with and we want to stay with them forever.
But it's not necessarily what they want and they up and leave and the pain is unbearable.
Love is eternal, love is indestructable. When everything else is gone, love still remains.
Feel no sorrow, feel no pain,
Feel no hurt, there's nothing gained.
Only love will then remain....
This is part of a verse of a song called "Shadow of the Moon" by Blackmore's Night. I think it sums it all up nicely.
2007-02-25 18:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by The Alchemist 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's true, we stop believing. We ask, endless "why's" only to get more questions in the way. I'm somewhat in the same place I guess, not knowing what the hell i'm supposed to do tomorrow. We gotta screw our heads back on correctly and believe in one thing: ourselves. We find faith in ourselves, we find our pride and take one step at a time. I have no idea where my steps will take me, but at least i'm leaving behind the betrayal that put me down. Try it. Pick yourself up and walk proud. Movement. Action. Choice.
2007-02-25 18:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by namojaro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love mean not getting something. That is what you give other your filling.That why if some body break your heart don't think any thing, think positive and live it to god.
2007-02-25 18:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you slowly learn to trust again.
better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... yes it is a platitude but so very true.
eventually when the pain is gone love will sneak up and tap you on the shoulder...
2007-02-25 20:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by cute s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so sad when someone truely breaks your heart, you can feel your heart hurting physically.
2007-02-25 18:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ill pick my heart that turn into a pieces one by one and fix it then ill stop loving .
2007-02-25 18:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you learn from it and be gentle on yourself and take your time finding the right partner
2007-02-25 18:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just kill them to get even..
2007-02-25 19:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋