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I have no idea why, because i personally think im kind. But you know how guys tease you sometimes? Well, sometimes the guys i know just cross the line with the teasing, like spreading rumors about me and what-not. Then i tell them to stop in a serious manner, and they tell me im being "mean" and "agressive". Am i doing something wrong..? I really dont like being perceived as a mean or agressive girl.

2007-02-25 17:46:01 · 7 answers · asked by Nise 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

Perhaps if you bring it up in a way that doesn't sound like you're accusing them of wrongdoing? "I know you didn't mean any harm, but this has really hurt my feelings. Would you please stop? It's kind of embarrassing to bring up... Thanks for understanding." But in your own words, of course.

2007-02-25 17:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

spreading rumors is not teasing. by telling you that you are being mean they are telling you that you are more attractive when helpless which is lame. often when you do whats right or stand up for yourself, especially as a female, you will be perceived as mean or even as the infamous "b-i-t-c-h", but if you are sure that your actions are just and not over the top it really is the other people.

2007-02-26 01:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you're not aggresive. i mean i did the same thing too, but they(my friends)never tell me i'm aggresive or mean. may be your guy-friends were embarrased, so that's why they accused you of being what they claimed you to be. well, that's what i call mean- accusing people of being someone they are not. so don't change yourself if you think you're ok. perhaps you'd like to change your friends???
or may be,they were just joking..sometimes people say things that they don't mean, ya noe...

2007-02-26 02:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Unless you're being real ugly to them, you are not out of line by asking them to stop doing what they are doing.

2007-02-26 02:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0 0

The problem is you're in high school surrounded by people with a high school mentality. It gets better afterwards.

2007-02-26 01:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by m k 5 · 1 0

i am equally as aggressive.... it is not wrong and many men fall in love with a girl that is as aggressive as we are..... trust me on this one...

2007-02-26 02:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Pregnant with baby# 2!!! 4 · 0 0

eh, the trouble with guys... if you're mean, you're a b*tch, if you're nice, you're a c*cktease. you can't win with them.

2007-02-26 01:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by Tina 3 · 0 0

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