i am 19 years old, both my ex boyfriend and my boyfriend now are 25...
i dated my ex when i was 16 he 22 we dated for 2 1/2 years, he was separated with his wife(he was supposed to be getting a divorce), and had 2 children... ( a long long long story) email me if you wanna get into that)...
needless to say we broke up...
now my current boyfriend is divorced..
here's the dilemma, why am i so upset about that fact that the current boyfriend was married, but i wasn't upset that the ex was?
2007-02-25 17:45:59 · 4 answers · asked by Pregnant with baby# 2!!! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you know how your last relationship ended... was there a link between why you and your ex broke up and his marriage? it basically living the same situation again and you know that it ended badly. you need to let go of the fact he WAS married and focus on your relationship. does it also bother you that they failed at their last relationships? from my point of view the fact of he was so in love with someone else, enough to marry them but it didnt work would bother me. even with all that love it failed, like you and him might. you need to stop worrying about his past, if you focus on his past you will fall apart and you wont even notice. just focus on now and what you have with him. good luck babe. just remember not to push him away... learn to stop yourself or you will regret it. email me if you wanna talk more bye
2007-02-25 17:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey no offense on this but howcome you keep dating the same guy over and over? You keep looking for the guy thats unavailable or you have to steal them away from someone. Is everything ok with you? Normally thats a sign that you've had some kind of problem in your past, most of the time with parents that didnt get along or one of them left you.. etc
2007-02-25 17:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably because you have gotten complacent.
Why are you dating married guys in the first place? That goes back to you. You need to take a look at yourself and find out why you are attracted to married guys.
2007-02-25 18:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is normal for you to have these feelings because everyone wants to be able to say he/she is mine and only mine without having to explain the bull. maybe you need to figure out what it is about you that draw married men. GOOD LUCK!..
2007-02-25 17:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by WILLIAMS 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋