I´ve told him no many many many times but he tries and tries.
I´ve known him since we were weks old, we grew up toghether...
I am still trying to convince him...
Any answers for how to say no without hurting too much??
2007-02-25 17:47:13 · 8 answers · asked by cutechick222200 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Somehow he must realize what you say is true. Are you flirting without really knowing it? If not you have to be really nice but direct and say "no chance," and if you can't understand that - then we have to stop being friends. That should get the message through, but please never tease him bc it's going to create more problems down the road.
2007-02-25 17:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya I can understand ur problem. Just think before replying him. If u are in opinion that u cant love him at any cost i.e. if u feel him as brother, then say him clearly that I treated as u my brother but not as some thing else. So make him clear the two relationships. I think he might be convinced by this. If he is not much matured to think like that it is ur beyond ur hands.
But if he accepts ur opinion, then be with him as a good friend cause, if u ignore him, there may be possiblity of effecting his courier.
So be brave and take a good decision. Good Luck.
2007-02-25 18:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OPTIONS:
A) get another boyfriend
B) tell him hes too much like your brother and you dont think of him that way
C) go out with him as a trial period (make sure he knows this) and at least youll be giving him a chance and if it doesnt work out just say its too weird for you you can still be absolute best friends as long as the break up is not harsh
D) Just ignore his attempts at getting you to go out with him
(I personally think you should just say you arent interested in him like THAT)
2007-02-25 17:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by Pineapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to say "no" and mean it. And tell him to stop asking since it will ruin your friendship if he persists, which would be a loss far greater that the fleeting pleasure of romance. Do not hold out any hope for him to cling to.
2007-02-25 17:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you love him like a brother and that you could never date him and don't want to ruin your friendship.
2007-02-25 17:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just till him u feels like hes ur brother and that it would grose u out and make u feel uncomfortable.
2007-02-25 17:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u know what they say, "one step to marriage is friendship"
2007-02-25 17:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships with best friends dont work out at all.......he's your best friend for a reason.....and no matter what you will only see him like that....so dont even try it...cuase it does not work ............trust me
2007-02-25 17:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by el tuly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋