like, is kissing a bit too much, holding hands, holding each other.etc
2007-02-25 18:01:20 · 5 answers · asked by Candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My youth leader always gave the example of, only go as far as you would feel comfortable in front of your mother. PDA makes other feel uncomfortable, but at the same time you're in love and happy and want to enjoy time with eachother. Just think about whether or not what your doing is honoring God, and if not, sit down and have a talk with your signifigant other. Remember God should be first in your relationship, as long as you remember that, you will know what to do.
2007-02-25 18:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel A 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Love is what makes us tick.
If it's real, not just a spur of the moment thing, then any display of affection will not be inappropriate. You'll hold hands because there's a bond... if you kiss it'll be with care... and when you hug it'll be with warmth.
From what I know, none of the above are sin. So I'd say its alright...
2007-02-25 18:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by namojaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be clear that as a christian you are first meant to set apart so it is up to you and your christian senses about modesty and decency that should predicate what you do in your relationship all together.
i know i see some pda's gonig as far as hand in each others back pocket... undershirts.. full out tongue kissing in supermarkets---EW! but I dont think these even come close to things i would consider doing publicly as a christian in a relationship. and likewise, as a christian, just because they are not done in public does not mean they are meant to be resevred for public.
heres a rule of thumb- if you wouldnt do it in church, then you shouldnt do it at all
2007-02-25 18:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with showing affection. Christian or not, there are obvious things that are too far, but I don't think anything you mentioned is crossing the line. Then again it's all in how YOU feel about it.
2007-02-25 18:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by second to none 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you and your mate are comfortable with.
If you or your mate aren't comfortable with anything, make sure you both let each other know.
2007-02-25 18:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋