I have a great long distance relationship. I live in florida and she lives in arizona. We dont plan on visiting each other very often, even though my family lives there in arizona. We have terrific phone conversations every night. We laugh a lot. We dont have sex cause we live so far away. We talk about moving close to each other but neither of us want to do it because she wants to be close to family in Arizona and I want to stay in Florida. I dont want to lose her and she doesnt want to lose me emotionally. I feel that a long distant relationship is hard on my self esteem. Plus, we never talk dirty anymore. But, I need a real girlfriend here next to me. And she is living with a male(friend),they work didnt shifts and she spends a lot of time with her parents. She could be sleeping with him but she says no--they are just friends. Yet she always calls me and tells me where she is. She has precancer of the ovaries too. i care about her. Should I let her go or continue the relationship?
2007-02-25 18:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Continue it. Friends are important. especially if you got somewhere far. They could tell you something you dont know.
2007-02-25 18:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Enigmatic A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo Crew dude,
I read your question very carefully--thought for a bit--and read it again-- and there are things here that are big trouble in the works for anything past friends !!
You two are surely friends--I hear that and realize that it is extremely important to BE friends for a relationship to grow BUT you can't be calling on friendship to BE more if there isn't more there !!
This distance thing is only one element here-- but it is a deal breaker !! People have to be much closer at least part of the time to experience life and "things" together in order to make memories and bonds !! And, with what you're saying here --with neither one of you caring at all about the move closer--- dude, it just isn't going to work that way--- keep the friendship -- cut the expectations and find a real live girl to love !!!!
2007-02-25 18:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since neither of you want to move to be closer to each other, I don't see yall continuing as a couple. Talking on the phone won't keep a relationship going. You have to actually spend some time with that person.
Yall still can be friends though.
2007-02-25 18:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you guys really think about your future together and think about getting closer to eachother if you really care about her. But if you only care about her that means you dont love her? Then you might have to let go if you both dont decide on moving closer to each other. You might want to let go before you really fall in love and then you guys really dont want to move at all. And it will be harder for both of you then. If you only care for her then why dont you guys settle it and say hey lets just be friends. But I am also going to tell you that sometimes friends because more than friends and they are the best ones to keep. Good Luck with you and your girl friend.
2007-02-25 18:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the both of you a favour and let her go. All you have is a voice on the end of a Phone. You will miss the thought of her, but you need someone you can touch.
2007-02-25 18:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by davethursfield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a sea of difference between physical friendship and long distance friendship. The latter is purely mental and hygiene in nature. You can continue your friendship with her as long as you want without both of you becoming physical and there is nothing wrong if she has a friend or you have one as long as you both do not cheat yourselves or your friends in vincity and explain them about your long distance friendship which is purely a friendship and nothing more or nothing less.
2007-02-25 18:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her as a friend if you can handle it. This relationship is not going to work if neither one of you is willing to accommodate the other.
2007-02-25 18:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by wiseone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 00:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by alt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. If you want a girlfriend get one. Stop wasting time with her. Neither one of you sound serious to me.
2007-02-25 18:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think let her go with her friend that she is sleeping with.. friends is always good! and i am sure it would help alot more on your head if you didnt have the strain of thinking oh wats she doing what should i say.. and you know what i mean...i hope
2007-02-25 18:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Brittany S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋