hey.
i`m a first year student. i fell in love with my friend`s sister. my friend knows about this. she is completing her Xth board exams on this march 2007. i thought of confessing my love for her earlier, but i did`nt because i thought she might get disturbed. can i express my love after her exams are over ?
she is a "SHY TYPE". she welcomes me to her house in the front door and gets in her room after saying a hi. i am unable to talk with her much. she feels shy talking to me but i do not know if she is feeling the same to talk with everyother guy. i love her so much. but i don`t have a single clue of what`s in her mind ! so, i need some advice on how to know if she loves me or not ? and first of all, if a Xth std girl can have love emotions ?
i`m waiting for answers from everyone of you especially from girls coz girls know much better about girls. can you help me out ?
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2007-02-25 18:01:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, mr college guy. the realistic way to look at this situation is, if you dont know what is on her mind, how do you know that you love her? Infatuation can easily be confused with love. But on another standpoint, it was really considerate of you to want to wait after her exams. This shows real maturity and that you dof eel strongly about her. Anyway, try asking her brother what makes her feel comfortable (i knoe this might be uncomfortable) and try stopping her in her tracks. if you have known her long enough maybe you can ask her to help you with something beofre she scurries off to her room. I think that she likes you if she doe this. Bu ther is also the possibiliy that her brother has already told her how you feel and that makes her a bit uncomfortable. either way, try to engage in a conversation. if she smiles after every sentence, she probably likes you
2007-02-25 18:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Candy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not usually think much of age differences BUT there is a considerable difference between a 15 year old and a 19 year old. It would be SO WRONG to persue a relationship with this young of a girl not to mention illegal.
BTW If she runs and hides in her room whenever you visit your friend that should be a big sign of how she feels. Telling her you love her will just get you into hot water with your friend and more than likely her parents.
2007-02-26 02:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too old for this girl. She is a child. You need to find someone your own age. Do not confess your love to her. Nothing can legally come of it. If you did anything sexual with her it would be statutory rape. Even if it wasn't illegal, a 15 year old and a 19 year old are at different levels developmentally and it is not healthy for you two to have a sexual relationship. Wait until she is an adult.
2007-02-26 02:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by rel541 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Depending upon where you live, it could be considered illegal. Check that first. Then talk to her parents. If they don't approve and you go against their wishes, is it truely love? After all that, talk to her, 4 years may seem like a lot now, but that is the distance in age between my parents. Age gaps mean less as you get older.
2007-02-26 02:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a legal adult. She is a minor. You would be arrested.
Either wait until she is a couple of years older (if it's meant to be, it will be) or find someone closer to your age.
The fact that she is very shy around people, should tell you enough to leave her alone. I was like that at 15, so I know what I'm talking about.
2007-02-26 02:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her; let her grow up, and do not complicate her life. If it's meant to be, she'll still be there, and she'll also be able to make adult decisions!
Be careful not to mistake love for "LUST". She herself, at her age, wouldn't really know what love is anyway.
Love, it is a committment, my friend. Not an emotion!
Suggestion:
Finish your education, and prepare yourself, to be the best you can be!! Perhaps in the future that could mean, "The Best Husband for the one you love." After all, "DOESN'T SHE DESERVE THE BEST?"
2007-02-26 02:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i found this situation common,and listen you are not too old for her but she is too young for all this ,first let her complete her Senior education. then think of someting like this,i am also having the same problem as you do.i am also 19 and like this guy who is my brother's friend and he is 22 yrs old. and me too not able to say him what i feel about him.
so it happens so dont worry about it and wait for a right time.ALL THE BEST
2007-02-26 02:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by sonia sharma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a question you should be asking her parents, seeing how she is less than the legal age, the age of common sense, social experience and adult judgment.
If her parents think it's okay with it, then maybe you should bring your question to this community for other parents' of 15 year-old girls opinions.
2007-02-26 02:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont where you live, but here in georgia a 19 year old can get in ALOT of trouble for messing with a 15 year old. leave her alone and find an adult!
2007-02-26 02:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't tell her at all i mean imagine how it'd be if you were a 15 yr old girl in highshcool and a college guys asked you out
2007-02-26 18:13:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋