he passed away four years ago, i still miss him so much,anyone else even though your an adult miss your dad?
2007-02-25 17:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by seven-11 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I wished i told him more how much he meant to me. ( i have a so many great memerios, him taking me to the races etc. too many to mention, why did'nt i tell him this before he died?) Hope others out there whose dad is still alive will tell him.
2007-02-25 17:10:00 · update #1
I know exactly how you are feeling. My father passed away June 17th, 1998, just five days before Father's Day. I was only 26 at the time. I think of my Daddy everyday but sometimes I just sit down and cry. There was a lot left to be said and I miss that. My daddy told me a few months before his passing that he had something that he needed to talk to his 5 girls about and that he wanted to do it alone. So my 4 sisters & I started planning things out and we finally found a great thing to do and that was to give my daddy something he never truly have. My daddy never got a chance to spend Father's Day with us five girls so we planned a Father's Day party. We had a sign & everything to put in the yard so noone would interrupt our time with our daddy. But we didn't get to have our Father's Day like we had planned but me & 3 of my sisters went to the cemetery where daddy was buried the day before. I am 34 now & the pain is still there.
I MISS MY DADDY LIKE CRAZY but I have peace knowing he is with Jesus.
2007-02-25 18:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I do,I was my daddy's little girl,and still am and alway's will be,and he knew that,I lost my mother it was 2 years this past Oct,then I lost my daddy three and a half months later in Jan,so it's just been 2 years for him too,and let me tell you,when you lose your parents it is the worst feeling you will ever feel in your heart,you will alway's feel the whole in your heart from losing them,I was fortunate I was very close to both my parents,I was the baby of the family of us 5 kids,so naturally I was very close to momma and daddy,and I was there and helped my daddy take care of my momma before she passed and it really made me feel good ,because right after my momma passed away my daddy told everyone if it wasn't for me,he don't know what he would have done through those most difficult times of his life,so I have a very special closure with that,but believe me I miss them both very very much everyday,someday's it's easier and someday's it's not,but what help's me is knowing they are up there in heaven together,with there momma's and daddy's again and that there together.Life is just not the same since I lost them,but I know,they want us kid's to go on,and that's what we have to do for them and us.So don't ever feel like you are to old to miss him,because you will forever miss him.
2007-02-26 03:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by sd01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miss my step dad!!!! He was more of a dad to me than my real sperm donor father! Yes I think of him all the time, it feels like he is up there thinking about me too. He visits in my dreams from time to time. I'm not crazy!!! Maybe subconsciously I just wish he visited but it was only a dream! My grandmother is the biggest one I miss. She was the super glue of this family. I try to think of only the good memories and not that she is gone.
2007-02-26 01:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never stop missing someone you love. My grandfather died in 1950-my grandmother in 1958 and my mother in 1960 and i still miss all of them but i still feel close to them in spirit. You are normal. Just because you grow up does not mean that you have to stop having feelings.
2007-02-26 01:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miss my mum a lot. I had a great dad growing up also, and an even better one now since mum died!
2007-02-26 01:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Panda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom almost 5 yrs this june. on my birthday!!!
I miss the essence of her.
I still have my dad, but I know one day i'll have to say good-bye to him as well.
It's part of life. We will always miss them, and remember fond memories!
Write down all your favorite memories,
Make a recipe book of your mom's favorite meals she cooked for you!!
one of my siblings g/f's did that,, from my mom's cookbook and gave it to the rest of us at Christmas!!
2007-02-26 01:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, terribly. I can't count how many times a day I still say "My Dad would have ... " or "My Dad used to... ".
My Dad was a really great man. :(
2007-02-26 01:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lirrain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lost my grandpa almost three years ago and he didn't make it to ny birthday.
i miss him sooo much.
he wasn't even my real grandpa. my real grandpa died before i was born so i don't know him.
but when ever i think about him i start to cry and it's just soo hard to go over to his house and remember that he's not in his chair or going to play poker with my parents.
2007-02-26 01:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by ZariaD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must really love your dad. that's good.
it makes us who still have our fathers around realize the importance of them still being there and that we should stop taking them for granted.
maybe it will help if you inspire others to love their dads, to write about your dad, tell kids about him and even pray for his departed soul.
2007-02-26 01:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋