I really like one of my guy friends he's 20 years old. We talked about dating but he said that he didn't want to ruin the relationship. Well, he text me everyday to ask how my day is going, how my job going, and looks at me all the time when I see him. We're suppose to be really good friends, but when i ask him to find me a guy to date he tells me hes going to do it but then he don't do it. I have talked to one of his friends, and he tried to get us to date but we didn't want to date, but when it comes to other guys he don't want me to talk to any of homeys. When I even talk about another guy or ask for advice on what should i do, he just pretty much ignore what I say. He won't tell me how he really feels which makes me think there's no feelings there, but when I know he gets jealous over certain things it makes me think he has feelings. Why is he giving mixed signals?
2007-02-25 17:07:10 · 2 answers · asked by a_j_8946 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds confused about what he wants, but the result is that he is not being fair to you. I woud givehim some space and concentrate on other friends. The time apart may help him to figure out what he feels for you.
2007-02-27 07:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by jammydodger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating with anyone is going to ruin your friendship.
That is what he thinks to himself, and you know it has validity because when a girl starts dating a guy, she inevitably spends more time with her love interest than with her male friend -- especially if the guy friend gets jealous.
You need to reassure your friend that nothing and no one will change your friendship with him.
2007-02-27 07:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by DrRJP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋