Family & Relationships - 24 February 2007

Who was he and why was he a "bad boy"? Was it worth it? Why or why not? My own eXperience. His name..Devlin...Tattoos..tongue ring...yeah..He was hot. He was good at oral pleasure, but he never came through on dates or calls. Worth it? Yes. He was such a sweet talker.....Had a way to mesmerize you with his bright hazel eyes and dark hair.......

2007-02-24 16:34:47 · 15 answers · asked by asiansmile 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother secretly moved out of my parents house, rented an apartment and took $10,000 from their joint savings account. This all in three short days and not talking to or telling anyone about her need to do so including her husband, my father. I say it that way because she always talks to me, her older sister, or her youngest sister. My mom is in her 50's and my parents have been married for 38 years. My parents have been needing counsling for about 5 years now and they both have been lazy on taking care of their marriage. I need to know if anyone has gone through a seperation or divorce where one or the other may need to seek mental health counsuling due to irratic behavior.

2007-02-24 16:34:30 · 12 answers · asked by wet_jeanlouise 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love tall, dark haired men but I usually end up flirting with blond guys. Then as things go forward I realize there's no chemistry and that I'm not really attracted to them.

Why do I keep doing this?

2007-02-24 16:34:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for over a year, and pregnant. I am due at any time. My husband doesn't answer his phone, lies to me, and we fight all the time. I really want him out of my life. I feel lonely even if we are in the same room. I feel like he is taking advantage of me. I don't need him to pay bills, hell will freeze over the day he does. The condo is in my name, and not one mail comes here in his name. I just want him to move out, I don't feel like he loves me or respects me. How can I get him out legally? Also, how can I get him out with out him taking all of my furniture? That I have worked very hard to buy.

2007-02-24 16:34:17 · 19 answers · asked by hollie_jones2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but both of you like each other but neither has the courage to ask the other one out so they both are single for a while

2007-02-24 16:34:02 · 5 answers · asked by Professor Dickweed 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 16:33:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

:l i have this ex-gf, lets call her A. Me n her started dating since last September, we were all very in love with each other and we kinda have a special connection with each other like, whenever i have tummy aches, she'll know without me tell her or vice versa.
Well, she asked for our first break out with each other on my birthday n its made me sad, in the morning of my bday, she was still ok, not till the afternoon wen she decided to break with me, her reason is lame :l well soon after 5 days, she wants to patch back with me.:l i jumped back n agreed cos i was still madly in love with her :l our relationship keep draggin till feb 4th,2007, wen she sent an e-card to me, asking for break becos she finds me annoying wen im not T.T .. she ignored my sms n fone calls, not till lately, we started toking again, and wen i ask her why she wanna break up >> SHE PUT DOWN THE FONE!!!
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so i dunno if she still love me or not :l gee

2007-02-24 16:32:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can they have happy relationship when an Indian man who never visited to USA, born and brough up in India and marrying a white born and brough up US citizen girl?

2007-02-24 16:32:43 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She tells me she wants to start fresh and I do too but im doing all the calling. I was the one who originally broke it off after 4 years for kind of the same reason, though she tells me that she cant make the change overnight, I dont know what action to take. When I ask her about it she says the same thing she has been saying..that she is not a phone person. We have been apart for a month and I guess we do want each other back. How do I set rules and boundaries and expectations without getting into an argument? What do I do if she slips up? Do I just forget it or show tolerance if she is willing to try to change those annoying habits. Right now we are in seperate cities until I graduate (a little over a year left, but we saw each other every chance we had) but for most of the relationship we were in the same city. She has a hard time saying what she really thinks and suggested getting help. How do I help us and her without doing most of the work and still support her? Is this doomed?

2007-02-24 16:32:40 · 2 answers · asked by def 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I love my hubby, but I recently (7weeks) just gave birth to our 3rd child. So I am up at night alot and very tired...well my husband was VERY helpful at taking care of the other two when they were babies at night. But all of the sudden he, who was always a light sleeper and never needed much sleep, is always falling asleep early and I can NOT get him to wake up and help me in the night. Like just a few min ago my 2 yr old daughter wolke up with a nightmare and wanted Daddy, not me. So I, who am up doing laundry tried to wake him, who has been asleep for 3 hours allready to help her get back to sleep. I had to scream at him to get up. I just want to know why he is behaving like this and do I have a right to be angry? And yes I have sat him down and talked to him about this and he says that he was unaware and that he would make an effort to do better, but once again, same stuff.

2007-02-24 16:32:37 · 13 answers · asked by Pdoodles 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I think we might be going together by IDK. Everyone asks us if we are going out but we always say no..then we look at each other and smile. We go everywhere together, mall, movies, dinner, lunch, school (5 out of 8 classes with him, and we sit by each other in every last one.) We hangout every weekend. I sometimes go to his house too. We smack each others butts, sometimes give hugs, walk to class together (we DONT hold hands tho)

These are some signs I think he is showing:
1) he gave me his phone to take home with me to take pic of myself
2) he smiles a lot
3) he goes wherever i want(even if he really doesnt want to, like the mall)
4) touches me a lot (smacks my butt, gives me hugs, plays around a lot)
5)goes out to dinner, movies, other places
6) talks on the phone for hours at a time
7) smiles when other people ask us if we are going out
8) makes great eye contact.

Are we together? **Keep in mind we both say no when people ask us if we are going out**

2007-02-24 16:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why would someone keep doing this at 38 years of age? Why not just live with someone? Why marriage?

2007-02-24 16:31:32 · 18 answers · asked by bahjij6 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 14 and in year 9 and like everyone has a boyfriend but on and off sort of thing. It is really iritating because i feel like im really slow getting into the whole dating game, also because all the boys are such slieves in my year. I don't want to turn out to be like the 40 year old virgin...lol. Should i have a boyfriend at my age?

2007-02-24 16:30:54 · 27 answers · asked by spongify_92 2 in Friends

My FI and I are getting married in June and (for many reasons) we have decided to take my last name. I didn't think it would be that hard, but after reading this story, http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=2778930&page=1&CMP=OTC-RSSFeeds0312, of a man trying to get his wife's last name, I'm not sure it will be so easy. We are out of state finishing school (GA) and are going back home (MO) to get married this summer. GA seems to be one of the states that it's easier for both individuals to change their names...

Any advice?

Should we have a civil (courthouse) marriage here and then having the ceremony in MO with all our family?

2007-02-24 16:30:32 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone else had this problem?
I saw a girl that normally I would avoid like the 'plague'...I can see the drama that could happen...BUT she makes me feel so good to see her smile that I start to have an anxiety attack(Heavy breathing, sweating, shaking) REALLY BAD. It happens every time she comes around. I am doing things that are out of character for me...and to make things worse she's a lot younger(but legal!). I was told that I have an 'obsession' and that its purely chemical and will go away with time. BUT I feel so good that maybe I don't want it to go away! She knows I like her but she's involved...Has anyone got any advice. I was told to start taking Prozac or Xanax. By the way....I can't stop thinking about her..at all. Its been three months

2007-02-24 16:30:21 · 3 answers · asked by Experimental876 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My FI and I are getting married in June and (for many reasons) we have decided to take my last name. I didn't think it would be that hard, but after reading this story, http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=2778930&page=1&CMP=OTC-RSSFeeds0312, of a man trying to get his wife's last name, I'm not sure it will be so easy. We are out of state finishing school (GA) and are going back home (MO) to get married this summer. GA seems to be one of the states that it's easier for both individuals to change their names...

Any advice?

Should we have a civil (courthouse) marriage here and then having the ceremony in MO with all our family?

2007-02-24 16:29:38 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda K 1 in Weddings

I know a family in which have struggled harshly through life. I know most families in America do struggle but this family caught my eye. The mother, fauther, daughter, two sons all live strange lives. The daughter seems to be jumping from bf to bf, gettings engaged and dumping the guy. Mom always meddles in the relationships of her daughter. Father cheats on mother while he is away, at home he shows a different character..one of kindness and easy going, but far from that. He is a liar, a cheater and selfish. The two sons, one son is strugging with his mariage, custody of his daughter, and cant seem to fly straight, no alcohol or drugs involved, his life is just rocky. the youngest one, always looking thoughtful, not to much to say, handsome and refined. He sits alone, seems to be pondering about life and its chaos. Hasnt had a gf in years, and lost friends due to their lack of respect. Alone he sits and plays music in his head and dreams, but can never make up his mind. Cursed?

2007-02-24 16:28:49 · 18 answers · asked by reeferbliss 1 in Family

I know for a fact I don't understand girls sometimes.

2007-02-24 16:28:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy
but im pretty sure he has a girlfriend
at the same time he seems interested in me.....

2007-02-24 16:28:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 16:28:15 · 14 answers · asked by Nadia Miller 2 in Weddings

I need a cheap, but good photographer for my wedding in blue springs, mo. I dont have any connections. The cheapest I can find is $850 but that is only for four hours and a cd with the pics and the rights to them (no actual printed pictures). Also, I need to know what to watch out for so I dont get suckered into a contract with someone who doesnt have experience.

2007-02-24 16:28:10 · 4 answers · asked by goaliegirl87 2 in Weddings

And how did you resolve it?

2007-02-24 16:28:08 · 11 answers · asked by Grace1228 3 in Weddings

2007-02-24 16:27:54 · 3 answers · asked by cute 1 in Singles & Dating

How would you define love?

2007-02-24 16:26:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my ex broke up few months ago and he said we're still friends and everything.
but a month later or nto even he block me on msn so for sure he delete me as well.. :/
and we see each other at school and all but we never talked should i try and be friend with him again or just let him go??? ><"

2007-02-24 16:25:50 · 3 answers · asked by vivilovy 1 in Friends

My mom woke me up to wash the dishes. That's way out of line. But I didn't talk back to her because I am feeling really tire.

2007-02-24 16:24:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

just wondering

2007-02-24 16:23:58 · 2 answers · asked by kia marie 1 in Singles & Dating

Up until about a week ago when I seen the movie "The Breakup" I thought that I was the selfish one in the relationship. However, I cook, clean, arrange "dates", keep track of the money, buy his clothes and pretty much act like a mother to him.

I do not want to be his mother but whenever I try to get him to think about something or decide what to do he gets mad and say why do I have to decide. It seems that as long as I go on and do stuff without asking him or letting him know he is happy. When I try to get him to be a "man" he gets grumpy and doesn't hold up his end of a relationship.

What can I do to change this or make it better and less pressure on me to make all decisions?

2007-02-24 16:23:51 · 22 answers · asked by cvhuntaylor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my partner recently went to prison, he wants me to bring the kids (age 4 and 9 weeks) to see him. i think he will resent me if i dont take them but i feel its not an environment they need to see, its confussing enough that daddy left. what should i do???

2007-02-24 16:23:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm an 18yo male, she is 17. We have known each other for 3 years. She said she had a crush on me her freshman year in high school. This was a shock to me and i feel this is one of the biggest mistakes that i had made by not connecting with her back then. But anyways, we're both Seniors now, and we had 1st period together. We would talk all the time, work together, and she would come close to me and sit with me alot. These were some of the signs that i had taken thought of where i thought she may like me more than a friend. I was an idiot and didn't make a move until our classes were almost over, i realized that i might lose this girl if i don't do something. So i get her # and adress and we talk for about 30min to an hour and we hangout alot now. Now at this point we get VERY close and start getting intimate, we would kiss, makeout, and touch each other all the time, even sexual, she comes onto me alot. She never told me with words how she felt. How do i tell her my true feelings?!

2007-02-24 16:22:43 · 6 answers · asked by End of nothing 2 in Singles & Dating