Can they have happy relationship when an Indian man who never visited to USA, born and brough up in India and marrying a white born and brough up US citizen girl?
2007-02-24 16:32:43 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Anything is possible but it might be difficult. I married an Indian guy who was already living in the US, did his studies in the US and was working in the US before we met. There are still cultural issues that have to be addressed all the time but at least he understood my country and American culture. I had also spent lots of time in Indian and had a degree in Indian studies and knew my husband's native language.
The first problem is where are you going to live. If you are planning on going to the US you need to make sure that you are able to get a job that will pay you enough to have the kind of life your girlfriend is expecting. Unless you are a highly experienced software or hardware engineer, a doctor or other highly qualified professional you will most likely only find very low paying work. You will also find it quite a change to live in the US. If you expect her to live in India - she should be ready to make major adjustments and to adapt to a new culture. There will be many things she will have to accept that may be difficult for her. I think before you get married you need to discuss and plan for all these issues.
Good luck.
2007-02-24 17:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by CV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it follows the arrange marriage system that I know many Indians follow then I feel it will be hard to adjust. But if you guys have been knowing each other for long and the women is all ready to adjust then I feel there shouldn't be really any issue. Infact marriage is a matter of compromise and if both involved in the relation makes sure that they do what they can to make it work, it surely will. Though yes, life for a girl who has been used to the lifestyle in US might take a little more time than any Indian girl would, to adjust. So guess that much patience and time should be allowed.
2007-02-27 23:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by gerry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2015-01-28 13:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i read the question i was about to get offended until i read the details u wrote for ur question lol im an american woman and im engaged to a mexican man, we've been together for 5 yrs and have a beautiful 2 yr old little girl... but i am not all liberal and seek equality like u were asking...and my fiance is not a DIE hard mexican...he speaks english, watches mtv lol wheres the stylish clothes, nothinh like cowboy boots/hats, and he has a farmers tan!! hahaha he is as white as me on his belly and legs!! weird since he is mexican huh? our baby doesnt even look mexican, i was hoping since i was having a baby with a mexican, she would AT LEAST have a good tan lol but to answer your question, if 2 ppl are really truly in love, then it wouldnt matter, true love conquers all
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2016-02-11 00:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kathey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible but big cultural differences. Is it out of love or just to get US citizenship?
2007-02-24 18:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-17 06:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you will not find someone to marry you.
Second of all, you will not find a job to support your family
Thirdly, you will be doomed by culture shock.
Why, don't you have any girls in your hometown ?
2007-02-24 16:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by ken88dorset 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if they love each other they can be happy
2007-02-24 16:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes...... if they both wants it the best.. it would work up wonderfully well for them !!!!
2007-02-24 16:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by 777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋