i am 14 and in year 9 and like everyone has a boyfriend but on and off sort of thing. It is really iritating because i feel like im really slow getting into the whole dating game, also because all the boys are such slieves in my year. I don't want to turn out to be like the 40 year old virgin...lol. Should i have a boyfriend at my age?
2007-02-24 16:30:54 · 27 answers · asked by spongify_92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are coming up to the most important years of your life.
Don't be in too much of a hurry to loose your virginity.
forget serious relationships, have fun, and concentrate on finnishing high school first!!!
2007-02-24 16:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... no? I had A boyfriend in 9th grade at 14, but that only lasted a month and all we were was flirts that called ourselves a couple. Not even a kiss.
Don't worry. The girls that are 14 and have had more BFs than years being alive are almost invariably $luts. Now, do you want a bad rep attached to your name? I don't, but I did feel inadaquate next to my friends who were already having sex. Thing is, most of them have kids now, and only one or two are over 18. Life is short, yes, but childhood is shorter. You need to hold on to that feeling of excitement when the guy grabs your hand and put off having to deal with the bigger feelings that happen when his hands wind up under your clothes. It's never as exciting as the first time.
2007-02-24 16:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be the honest MAN here. I am 34 years old. Please do not try to hurry your life along. Wait until you are 18 to really consider dating. At your age, you are feeling a lot of pressure from your peers. Don't let them get to you. I did, and now I smoke cigarettes, drink beer, etc. But not anything illegal. Just give life time. My best advise is to join the hardest and most challeging classes and programs at school. You will not beleive what that will do for you later in life. I know I sound like one of your parents, but I spend a lot of time trying to give advise to young adults who may otherwise be communicating with the wrong people. Just hang in there. Life is too short to worry. After school is over, you'll know what I mean.
2007-02-24 16:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay for you to have a boyfriend, but I think that you should get to know yourself a little better. If you have to question whether you are ready to have a boyfriend then maybe you should wait a little while until you are sure that you are ready. Just a word of advice, it's not the end of the world to be the only one of your friends who doesn't have a boyfriend.
2007-02-24 17:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you really shouldn't. Not that you shouldn't be allowed, but its just unfortunate that young kids feel they have to act more grown up than they really are. Trust me about one thing, if I could reverse time and be a teen again, the last thing I would do is act like a grown up - no committed relationships, no worrying about what I look like, not caring what people think of me, ... just learning, and having fun, being confident of who i was no matter what everyone else thought i should be.
2007-02-24 16:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by T D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 14 years old and i have a boyfriend so i think that it is very normal for a 14 year old to have a boyfriend....especially if you are in high school........you are not going to end up the 40 year old virgin trust me i thought i was gonna end up like that.......all i needed was a little advice and i was set and ready to go and u can too so PLEASE email me and i can give you plenty of advice and i check my mail everyday.....email me at reshena92@yahoo.com ..... im not doing you a favor you are doin me a favor
2007-02-24 16:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Reshena F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be in a hurry to give your "goodies" up. Trust yourself. You will know when the right time comes. Please do not get into the habit of going things that other people do. Be a leader not a follower.
You will be surprised at how many people say they wish they would have waited.
2007-02-24 16:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plenty of time for you to screw up your life....try thinking about waking up at all hours to feed a baby and washing bottles and baby clothes and not going anywhere with friends and missing all the wonderful things ahead for you because you are poor, have no one to help you, living with your parents and working at Walmart while the little boy is out there making more babies with your friends. Honey, boys don't care about girls, they are all dogs. Don't be a victim, do something with your life!
2007-02-24 16:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, 14 is too young and you don't want to rush into anything. My friends all had boyfriends before me but they didn't last, so wait at least a year to get one and be friends first than date. i bet your relationship lasts longer than theirs. Also boys mature more quickly than girls so take your time.
2007-02-24 16:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Marilyn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it relies upon on the age of consent. you could inspect the wikipedia web page on age of consent. he would no longer be of age both, in which case he couldn't be prosecuted. the guidelines of the state the position it got here about will make sure what, if some thing, the moms and dads of your cousin will be in a position to do. he can not get in hassle after turning 18 if she became pregnant earlier then. if her moms and dads don't have a difficulty, then no longer some thing's going to ensue, no one will press prices then. and no the moms and dads can not get in hassle, they could't be prosecuted for no longer understanding what became occurring. if their state has romeo and juliet guidelines, then even the state can not do some thing about it, regardless of in the journey that they pick to
2016-12-04 22:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by matis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋