Family & Relationships - 24 February 2007

"Please Help" details: I like this senior (i'm a junior) but the class we had together just ended-- but in the class we didn't interact much with eachother at all anyways. It's already second semester meaning in a couple more months he's gonna be off at college. I'm really shy and its really hard for me to approach people, but I don't want to miss my chance. What do i do??? Please keep in mind that i am REALLY shy.

new details: I e-mailed him and you know how you can check if they have read it or not? well he had read it, but then didn't respond. And now I feel like a total loser and i feel like i just totally blew it. Now what???!!!

2007-02-24 16:05:10 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

weve been going back and forth with likeing eachother for like ever now, and he messes with me, and wlks behind me in the hall wenwe r wlking n like trips me,lol, not meanly, just screwing, so then we finally decided that we pretty much like eachother, but we r still a little bit unsure, so we r gonna hang out sometime, and then mayb we'll go out,and my friend was helpin with all this, n she knows more than me bout this, lol, not really js, cuz she knos like so much, so the next da, he is wlking behind me n tripping me, n i always said stop other days, so i was like stopp, and hes like, o ok, she said stop, so i gotta stop, hed never do that b4, and my friend said we were like acting like we were going out that day, so is he really serious about going out this time!!!!????

2007-02-24 16:04:43 · 7 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

a couple months ago i found out that 2 of my friends smoke and on the weekends they also drink....one of my best friends told me she hates people like that and she would never do anything like that...but last week i went 2 my dad's house and i was going 4 a walk with my step sister and i saw all 3 of them walking down the alley behind my dad's house and they wre all smoking........should i tell the friend that said she would never smoke that i know or just pretend that i never saw it....also i know if i tell her she will deny it......what should i do??

2007-02-24 16:01:48 · 11 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4 in Friends

You are college graduate and have permanent job. He is a driver and no permanent job. Your family and relatives are CONSERVATIVE type of family, and they have a lot of expectations from you.

2007-02-24 16:01:40 · 8 answers · asked by dumbo 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend goes swimming with me, "doesn't wear his shirt" my boyfriend walks around my house "shirtless" my boyfriend sleeps in bed with me "shirtless" why doesn't he ever make out with me "shirtless"?

2007-02-24 16:00:45 · 14 answers · asked by US 4 1 in Singles & Dating

please, I need a explanation?

2007-02-24 16:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by Na-ya P 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a best friend and her brother is realy hot but I cant ask for his number by her cuz she would ask why and i just wouldn't be able to tell her;.... what should i do?

2007-02-24 15:59:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well it started out talking to him over computer and phone so he asked me if i had a boyfriend and i told him dat idint have 1 which is true i ask him the same and he answered back saying yes i do ..okay no problem rite but i didnt fell in love wit him then,until now i do got feelings for him.soo days go on and men him start flirting and he tells me that hes sprung and that he loves me and someother thingz..3 days pass and he starts acting weird with me so i ask him whats qrong and he tells men tohing is wrong! until i go to sleep soo he tellz me dat he gotz a lady and o dont got no wordz to say




now dayz pass and we still talk but should i still be tlaking to him or should i let him go?..

2007-02-24 15:59:33 · 4 answers · asked by karla_veronica_rivas 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think of someone who can speak another language or has a distinct accent? Is it considered a turn on that they can communicate in another language besides English? Why or why not?

2007-02-24 15:58:32 · 9 answers · asked by asiansmile 3 in Singles & Dating

wut do u guys think of a guy who is 17 who hits a girl who is 16 and they are dating becuz he gets mad at her for stupid things like not being on time and not doing everythign exactly how he says

wut would u do if you were getting hit

2007-02-24 15:58:15 · 31 answers · asked by Alyssa 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friends name is amanda. [ she's my cousin as well ]
and she is involved with this guy who i think is using her for sex.
well i don't know the guy and i want her to talk to him about it.

see...they met at a hotel and they had sex that night.
and he acts like her boyfriend but he's in the military he's gonna be leaving soon.
i do think she loves him...but i'm not so sure about him loving her. he acts like it...but i know guys. we'll [unfortunatly] do anything to get some.
but this guy confuses me!
is he for real?
should i just back off?

2007-02-24 15:57:47 · 2 answers · asked by greg h 1 in Singles & Dating

hes always around me in all... but he still talks and is around her a lot too.... does that mean he still has feelings for her?

2007-02-24 15:55:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever known two people who YOU KNEW FOR A FACT liked one another, but for some reason, one of them refused to go out with the other because of popularity issues? Well that's what's going on with my friend. She and this guy had BOTH liked each other 2 years ago, and they admitted it, so they were "sort of" going out in an awkward way. It was a really big thing, since he was like the most popular guy in school, and she was a little bit of a nerd (not being mean, cuz of course that would make me a nerd too) and they never looked so much like the couple type. But that's no one's opinion but their own. But the point is, should she still like him now, two years later, after he kind of ignored her for a whole year, and then continue to avoid the subject? Is it fair? Does the situation make him sort of a jerk? Is she doing the right thing by continuing the way she is? I NEED ANSWERS. I don't want to be responsible for her getting hurt! help?

2007-02-24 15:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Singles & Dating

I am goin to see this guy that i saw about 3 weeks ago at a fellowship meeting. When i saw him i didnt get to talk to him. He is shy. And A week from today at this guys retirement party, that same guy is goin to be at the retirement party. I was wanting some sugestions on what we should talk about. I am sorta shy, when it comes to guys i become a little shy, so i need some sugestions!

2007-02-24 15:54:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my girl friend been going out for a year.The other day a lesbein added her on myspace they keep talking back and forth.The lesbein asked my girl if shes bi or lesbein she said no i have a boy friend.I think there just friends i hope.The lesbein commented her picture saying mmmm your hot.It buged me i told the lesbein leave my girl friend alone she did shes afaird of me.My girl friend denyed everythimg I thinking of brakeing up with her what should i do?

2007-02-24 15:54:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She was my dream girl. But she was my first gf too. However i could never have asked for anyone more perfect. She respected my geeky interests and was able to see a sweet side of me i never knew could exist. But since we were so young we decided to go see other people. Now I dunno if i'll ever find any girl who will love me as much as she did.

www.myspace.com/dan_dan316

Thats me. I'm real short unfortunately, which is another reason why I think no other girl will love me the same way.

If you would date me, then please say so. Thank you.

2007-02-24 15:53:26 · 9 answers · asked by Danny S 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 15:53:07 · 5 answers · asked by wendzgrl2002 2 in Singles & Dating

I work with him. Hes my age. He usually does stuff for me if i ask him too, but he'll always say... 'say please!!!' and im like.. please, and hes like thats better. and then he does it.

He usually looks at me and pokes his tongue at me, the other day he blew a kiss at me. (which was weird.) I have about 80 txt messages from him.

He always teases me at work. Writes me a note saying 'i no u want me'. he asked if he culd go on his 10min break, and i sed yes.. and i went back to wat i was doing, and he just stood there.. looking at me.. wel i could c him thru the corner of my eye. then i looked up at him and he just looked at me some more.

i asked him for his lunch money, and he wouldnt give me any, and i told him i had no money, so i asked another guy and he gave me money, then wen i came back with money hes like.......... so u really didnt have ne and im like no. then hes like, way to make a guy feel bad! but he gave me money anyways.
do u think he likes me? why? why not??

2007-02-24 15:52:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I opened a business and I need some advice. If you were dealing with a place that did grooming, behavioral training, counselling and behavior modifications for your pet no matter what species, what would you look for? How much would you want to pay? what services and or problems would you want help with? And what advice would you give?

2007-02-24 15:52:11 · 3 answers · asked by Angela R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-24 15:51:55 · 14 answers · asked by THKE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i get a guy to like me? im more of a tomboy, i want to make a guy not see me by how im dressed,i want them to see the other side of me.

2007-02-24 15:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by Orlinda K 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 15:50:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies, what to do and what to talk about on a second date after 3 month period of not seeing each other yet still in touch ?
Give me some advice on what to do on a second date

what should i talk about.

Should I start getting more personal and more sensual.

Any advice on what to do on a second date

2007-02-24 15:50:01 · 2 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the most important thing you look for in a woman? Her looks, eyes, smile, breast, butt, etc. Or is it her personality or whats on the inside. Most men have a preference, like maybe breast or butt. What is yours. Do looks really matter??

2007-02-24 15:49:26 · 16 answers · asked by latasha 2 in Singles & Dating

Every deejay has thier own way of performing. Sometimes they are good and sometimes they are not....I want to know what you disliked about your deejay and what you did like.

2007-02-24 15:49:10 · 5 answers · asked by clintpittenger 2 in Weddings

do u think it's weird when a girl asks u to dance or asks u out or makes the first move? i'm sick of waiting! and a lot of the guys seem 2 shy and need someone to break the ice...is it awkward if a girl does it?

2007-02-24 15:49:08 · 12 answers · asked by Surfergirl 4 in Singles & Dating

So i'm a Junior in h.s., and a lot of my friends...good friends...drink. I don't because I don't have any want to, and I know nothing good can come out of it. But there are two girls, I thought they were real nice girls, weren't into that...I loved them...they said they HATED people who drink, drugs, etc. Then I find out today that they were at this party the other night...and that they were drinking. This is just such a shocker to me, and I just don't know what to do. Just somebody help me...I don't even wanna see them anymore.

2007-02-24 15:48:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-24 15:48:15 · 6 answers · asked by tcp_jenny 1 in Family

i've been in a relationship with my first love for 8 months now. we've broken up twice, once at 3 months, then again at 5. the first time because we both weren't happy, and sort of missed the single life. then the second time because we agreed that we weren't ready to be "in love" we got back together, about 2 weeks after the last time. now i'm beginning to think i've lost the love i had for him at first and that i'm bored within the relationship. i think of this kind of stuff, then he does something out of this world that makes me think it'll all find its way back together. lately we just spend weekends sitting around at either of our's houses watching movies. i mean, no doubt, i love spending time with him, the same ol' same ol' just gets boring. what do you think about the situation?

2007-02-24 15:48:11 · 5 answers · asked by youmakemesmile :] 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 15:46:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating