my best friends name is amanda. [ she's my cousin as well ]
and she is involved with this guy who i think is using her for sex.
well i don't know the guy and i want her to talk to him about it.
see...they met at a hotel and they had sex that night.
and he acts like her boyfriend but he's in the military he's gonna be leaving soon.
i do think she loves him...but i'm not so sure about him loving her. he acts like it...but i know guys. we'll [unfortunatly] do anything to get some.
but this guy confuses me!
is he for real?
should i just back off?
2007-02-24 15:57:47 · 2 answers · asked by greg h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're really worried, talk to your best friend. just bring up the subject casually, but don't make it into a big deal. if she disagrees with you, then just back off. hey, ya did ur part and talked to her and if this guy's not for real, then she'll figure it out herself. remember, you don't wanna be the cause of a broken relationship that went bad because of suspicion.
if ya feel like talking to your best friend might hurt her, then try talking to that guy. when ur alone, ask about how he feels. i'm sure you can tell with the way he talks about her if he's real of not. chose what's best for you but don't ponder over it so too long cuz that only will confuse you more. just take some action! hope that helps.
2007-02-24 16:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be forreal
2007-02-25 00:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋