guys who hit girls?

Question

wut do u guys think of a guy who is 17 who hits a girl who is 16 and they are dating becuz he gets mad at her for stupid things like not being on time and not doing everythign exactly how he says

wut would u do if you were getting hit

Answer 1

it sounds like a very serious proplem for this young women who needs out asap.the man if you can him that seeks ultimate control and believes he can get it through force.if it were my friend ,daughter or some i knew call the police its called abuse

Answer 2

Guys who hit girls are low, thats like a 10yr old kid hitting a 5yr old kid, the strength is just not the same... And everybody is late sometimes, things happen... And she shouldnt do everything exactly how he says all the time she is her own person who has her own brain and can make her own decisions in life....
this girl needs to get out of this relationship ASAP because even if it starts as just one hit (which is NEVER ok) chances are it will get worse.... My stepmum got locked in a house with my sister when she was a baby for a whole week and there was no food in the house so he could go and get drugs... A relationship with violence is not a happy or preductive or healthy one, good luck babe and look after yourself

Answer 3

Look you need to end that relationship right now or end up dead it's not that hard. I understand that you may think you love him but I can tell you that he surely does not love you. A man that hits a woman is not a man. It will only get worse trust me I had a friend like that when i was in high school and her man sent her to the hospital well after they got her off the ground and onto the stretcher ( he knocked her unconcious). Get out know while you still have your health or the next time anyone sees you may be at your funeral.

I don't care how mad he gets you do not deserve to be hit by anyone. You deserve love kust like everyone else in the world. Don't let him rob you of what the world has in store for you.


Oh yeah and call the police.

Answer 4

LEave. There is no way that a relationship like that is going to benefit anybody. I was in a relationship where i wasnt physicaly abused but emotionally i was damaged and i can imagine how it is being hit. My mom was abused by my dad and the best thing she ever did in her life was leave him. It may be lite hitting now but it will progress if you let it continue. Be a Smart Girl and get out. YOu can find someone wo will love you and not hit you, someone who can uderstand that being a couple minutes late is okay. Dont think that that is all that you deserve, because you deserve to be treated like a princess not a peasant. You are beautiful and as long as you try that should be good enough for anybody.

Answer 5

First of all, I would talk to my parents about it. This guy has no right hitting on anyone, especially a girl. I would get out of that relationship as fast as I could and move on to bigger and better things. I would know that I deserved better than that and let my dad pound on his face a little. Lol! Seriously honey, if you are being hit by this guy, that is abuse. The abuse will only esculate to more serious beatings. You need to get out now while you can. Good Luck...

Answer 6

First I'd tell my parents, have them call the cops, have the kid arrested and file a "Restraining Order" to keep him away from me!!! It's NOT funny for either sex to hit the other no matter what the reason is. If the kid is hitting a girl now at the age of 17, just think what he's likely to do when he gets older. Poor upbringing on his parents part.

Answer 7

im not a guy but I still would like to answer this question. Any guy who hits a girl for any reason is a loser piece of crap. He will always say he is sorry and yet will do it again. This guy may have been abused himself as a child....but still no excuse to do it himself. This girl who is putting up with this abuse needs to get out of the relationship immediately. IT WILL NOT STOP AND IT IS NOT RIGHT!!!
ALSO..this type of guy may be hard to get rid of safely so be CAREFUL. You need to go file for a restraining order and stick to it. These type of guys will act nice long enough to get there way then will go back to being mean..so dont fall for the crap.

Answer 8

It is illegal for anyone to hit another person. It is called battery and is an arrestable offense. IT IS NOT A SHOW OF LOVE and if he's hitting you, he does NOT love you! Get a restraining order, dump him, get some protection, do something, but get away from this guy now! It will only get worse and you could end up hurt really bad or even dead.

Answer 9

First of all, if a guy hits you, he doesn't care.. I suggest dumping him / leaving as soon as possible and telling him that if he was to contact you in any way you will call the police and put a restraining order on him.. Stay to your word, don't back down.. If it's just hitting now, it could be worse later.. Usually abusive relationships turn into death..

Answer 10

If I was getting hit, I would hit back much harder and tell him to stay away or I'll put you in the hospital. Since the girl is being hit by a guy, its ok for her to use a brick or a bat or a piece of pipe when she hits back. Self defense :-)

Answer 11

As a guy speaking, this dude is just an a$$hole. I find no reason whatsoever to lay a hand on my girlfriend EVER. Now if I was a girl, I would just have to call the cops on him and have him locked up, unless of course I took matters into my own hands. Which would be very ugly...