I am goin to see this guy that i saw about 3 weeks ago at a fellowship meeting. When i saw him i didnt get to talk to him. He is shy. And A week from today at this guys retirement party, that same guy is goin to be at the retirement party. I was wanting some sugestions on what we should talk about. I am sorta shy, when it comes to guys i become a little shy, so i need some sugestions!
2007-02-24 15:54:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
where is he from , where he works, how long hes been around the area, how did he know these people, how he likes the area or not why, how he likes the weather omg i cant list all of them out ..u gotta b real shy huh??..how many brother sister , if he goes out ,where he likes to go , do in spare time, if he likes sport and what kinda sport...but dont ask him all these at 1 time tho..depends on where the conversation leads u to..ok...and more...lol...what kinda food he likes to eat , what kinda movies ....is that enough??, try not to ask him too many personal questions ......still more but like i said ..depends on where the conversation leads u to....sounds like u like this guy huh???:)...good luck.
2007-02-24 16:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Wow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't know what his likes/dislikes are, perhaps you can find out more about the person retiring (who the party is for) and can discuss him (the retiree) some and that may branch off into other things about the two of you that you can talk about.
Such as, if the retiree worked for a power company, you could talk about that, or was he a mechanic? you could tell a story about your car, whatever it is try to start with something in common (both at the retirement party) then look for clues on things he says and how he reacts and what he says, for things that he would like to talk more about.
Good luck!
2007-02-24 23:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by saying hi or something like that. Then bring up something about the guy who is retiring because you both seem to know him. If not that, talk about something regarding the fellowship meeting. That should ease your tensions and his. Take it from there with something you might have in common.
2007-02-24 23:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by topback35 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break the Ice.. ask him how he is doing today. and start from there.Maybe ask him a question or two about the fellowship , his interest and studies..then go from there..find something about him you both have in common and start talking. Keep it flowing not not too boring.
Good luck
2007-02-25 00:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by mei_mei_mei54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out by chatting with him about the life of the guy who is retiring. Then, ask him some questions based on his responses. Soon, you will get the courage to be more bold and ask some unabated questions. good luck
2007-02-24 23:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will like you if you are rather quiet,they like to be aggressive and dominated the conversation.You will do fine just be yourself,don't try so hard,the peaceful atmosphere will create
a conversation about most anything.Be yourself.That is the most important thing in conversations.Think of things that make you happy.
2007-02-25 00:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you interested in?
That would be the first thing I suggest. If you know nothing about what he likes, the best thing would be to talk about what you like. Once you discover something you both like, you can expand on that. But, if you try to talk about something you think he likes, but you don't, you may end up sounding like an idiot. You know most about what you're interested in.
Take it from there
Best of luck!
2007-02-24 23:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by A Scared Friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could talk about retirement and what you'd each do if you could retire right now. Safe but you could learn something about him and how he thinks too.
2007-02-25 00:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just bring up different subjects, like what you do for fun...what you like to eat and do. Things like that. This may help...I hope it does. Good Luck!
2007-02-24 23:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by lovemakestheworldgoround84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hi and everything else will fall into place
2007-02-24 23:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by mb_geo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋