Me and my girl friend been going out for a year.The other day a lesbein added her on myspace they keep talking back and forth.The lesbein asked my girl if shes bi or lesbein she said no i have a boy friend.I think there just friends i hope.The lesbein commented her picture saying mmmm your hot.It buged me i told the lesbein leave my girl friend alone she did shes afaird of me.My girl friend denyed everythimg I thinking of brakeing up with her what should i do?
2007-02-24 15:54:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude i know what your going through
you have to prove to her that you love her
NOW
as soon as you can!
Go to her now and talk to her about it, do something, anything because if not it might be to late.
get her away from the girl at any costs
I was in love with my best friend for 8 months, and i waited to tell her and it was too late because she met a lesbian and now she is in love with her and i am hurt so much.... its the worst feeling in the world to lose the girl you love to another girl... its a terrible heartbreak... and i have been depressed about it for 3 months... and now there engaged... her GF cheats on her all the time and me and her cousin know allot about her.... we have interfered and done everything we could but she still does not believe us... we have tried everything, even showed her proof and she thought it was fake..... go to your girl, prove you love her and that you don't want to lose her... because i will be the one who screams i object at the wedding... and i don't want you to have to do the same thing... its hurts.
2007-02-24 16:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Unrated 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh for crying out loud why? She talked on the computer with someone who is a lesbian is not a good reason to break up with her. If that person made a pass at her then I am sure she could have handled it herself and really you have no right to tell her who she can talk to at all ever anywhere anyway.
2007-02-24 16:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't break up with her! Lesbians add me all the time on myspace, and i have a boyfriend. I talk to ppl just to be nice i don't turn anyone away for the sexual preference. Don't hurt her over something like that I'm sure it's innocent. Don't worry about it, but i know where your coming from i don't like chicks talking to my boyfriend and i wouldnt want a gay man talking to him. I would never break up with him for that tho! Have her block the chick from contacting her on there!
2007-02-24 15:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by www.myspace.com/devilishvixen21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesbians, gays and straight people can be friends. Sexual preference, religion and politics are things that define us, but everyone can be friendly and chat. You shouldn't be so worried about your girlfriend's correspondents. You should be more concerned with being the best, most open-minded person you can be. And, by the way, pay more attention in English class so you can write in an educated way. "My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year." (Not "me and my girlfriend".)
2007-02-24 16:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her. Now. If she told this girl that she doesn't have a boyfriend when she did, she apparently doesn't care about you as much as you care about her. Dump her and find someone 10x better.
2007-02-24 16:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by xdiabolicalsound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with her!! What's your problem? She was probably just nervous about talking about it and since she obviously didn't want to do anything with her it shouldn't be a big deal. I agree with the dude above, 3some
2007-02-24 15:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by I want u2 hit me as hardas u can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. im a girl. girls tell each other there hot all the time. my friends say like gurl, you look hot. it doesnt mean my friends like me like that. ok. so lets say you have a friends. and you guys become the bestest of friends. like you never do anything without each other. then suddenly he tells you hes gay. arent you still gonna hang out with him? hes the same person, he just doesnt like girls. i dont think its right but you shouldnt dump her. theyre most likely just friends. or else she would have dumped you, no offence. hope everything works out ok.
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2007-02-24 15:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that ask her to do a 3 some, meaning u and two other girl ... Then dump her... think about it every guys dream, NO?
2007-02-24 15:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt your gf had an encounter with this chic. Straight chics dont just go out and do it w a lesbo
2007-02-24 15:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so insecure and try to set up a 3-some.
2007-02-24 15:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by Rand `al Thor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋