do u think it's weird when a girl asks u to dance or asks u out or makes the first move? i'm sick of waiting! and a lot of the guys seem 2 shy and need someone to break the ice...is it awkward if a girl does it?
2007-02-24 15:49:08 · 12 answers · asked by Surfergirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they're not shy,they don't want get killed by your boyfriend,that's why I don't ask my crush out,cuz I like my body parts where they are.
2007-02-25 10:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I wouldn't mind a girl making the first move. If it was just plain out "I LIKE YOU, WILL YOU DATE ME?" Then that's a different story. That typically catches a guy off guard, and has to retort to quick thinking in order to not hurt the girls feelings. I perfer to get to know a girl first, then find out if she's interested. I can't tell you if it works or not, 'cause I havent had a gf since 3rd grade. I'd try to at least break the ice, and move on from there. Who knows? Maybe it'll work. But remember, this is coming from a guy who hasen't even had his first kiss yet. So, Good Luck.
2007-02-24 23:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the girl I'm with now actually had to make the first move with me. For some reason I was very intimidated by her. After she kinda hinted around and made the first move everything was cool after that. We just had to get over that little hump, so I'd say go for it.
2007-02-24 23:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not a boy, but I think they do like it when you make the first move. It gives them a boost of confidence and it lets them know that someone is interested in them. So I say go ahead make a move.
2007-02-24 23:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by ForeverAW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but sometimes it's good to be forward. Some guys like that, when girl's take initiative. It shows that they have confidence, and that's attractive and sexy. Don't be too pushy or forward though.
2007-02-24 23:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Loves It<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well im not a guy but i say go ahead and make the first move.... i do a lot.... it isnt that awkward..... just what ever you do dont push to much.... ask and then give them time
2007-02-24 23:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ginnay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i wood love fer a gurl to make the first move
2007-02-24 23:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
guys nowadays are *******
its only normal for women to take up the lead
2007-02-25 00:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by gamersgene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not all all I like it when a lady gets frisky and makes the moves
2007-02-24 23:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy. but i asked my boyfriend of 6 mnths out, and i asked him to our homecoming, i dont think its wierd
2007-02-24 23:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋