Second Installment to "Please Help"?

Question

"Please Help" details: I like this senior (i'm a junior) but the class we had together just ended-- but in the class we didn't interact much with eachother at all anyways. It's already second semester meaning in a couple more months he's gonna be off at college. I'm really shy and its really hard for me to approach people, but I don't want to miss my chance. What do i do??? Please keep in mind that i am REALLY shy.

new details: I e-mailed him and you know how you can check if they have read it or not? well he had read it, but then didn't respond. And now I feel like a total loser and i feel like i just totally blew it. Now what???!!!

Answer 1

you dont know that you blew it he may be surprised and not sure what to say back.talk to him in person and see where things stand before you give up

Answer 2

Give him some time to think over what you emailed him. He needs to think of an appropriate response. If he isn't interested it's not the end of the world. Don't stress. You will have many opportunities to come but at least you did take a step even if it doesn't result in what you want. Life is full of many let downs and you need to accept that. Life is also full of many joys so you will have that too. When you are older you will realize this so please don't let things get you too down now.

Answer 3

This is a tough one. Maybe you could approach him for help in class. Maybe borrow his notes etc. That might break the ice. There could be several reasons he didn't respond to your email. Maybe he didn't realize who it was. Many people do not open mail unless they are sure who the sender is. Are you sure he read it???

Answer 4

ask him at school as you pass in the hallways if he got your email, someone else might have opened in and he may not have seen it.
If you see him in the hallways look at him right in the eyes and smile, every time.
I don't know what else to tell you
good luck