I'm an 18yo male, she is 17. We have known each other for 3 years. She said she had a crush on me her freshman year in high school. This was a shock to me and i feel this is one of the biggest mistakes that i had made by not connecting with her back then. But anyways, we're both Seniors now, and we had 1st period together. We would talk all the time, work together, and she would come close to me and sit with me alot. These were some of the signs that i had taken thought of where i thought she may like me more than a friend. I was an idiot and didn't make a move until our classes were almost over, i realized that i might lose this girl if i don't do something. So i get her # and adress and we talk for about 30min to an hour and we hangout alot now. Now at this point we get VERY close and start getting intimate, we would kiss, makeout, and touch each other all the time, even sexual, she comes onto me alot. She never told me with words how she felt. How do i tell her my true feelings?!
2007-02-24 16:22:43 · 6 answers · asked by End of nothing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She seems very shy towards me at times, in which she can't seem to find a way to tell me her true feelings for me with words instead of actions, even though i know something between us is there and is very true. All of my friends see us together and think we are already bf and gf because of how intimate we are, but that is the thing i want her to tell me how she feels too because i already told her i had "feelings" for her over the phone. I wanted to say much more but i need to speak in person to her for it to mean much, because that is the type of guy i am and i like connecting face to face. I get close to telling her whats been on my mind but.. i don't know i get nervous when i think about what i'm going to say and how i might sound.. it never comes out instead we just lay there together on her bed or something and just make out and do whatever. I just don't know how to tell her i love her, love can scare some people if they are not ready for the commitment. I want us to be bf and gf
2007-02-24 16:30:42 · update #1
By what you've said, You've kissed her, been up her, but you haven't got the balls to say "I LOVE YOU".
You're 18, an adult, it's not that hard or scary
2007-02-24 16:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer love, yet only a overwhelm. i became even closer than that to my acceptable lady buddy. We held hands, hugged ever 2 seconds, locked hands, and rested on one yet another's shoulders for all time. yet she ended up with yet another guy. regardless of if, she did admit having thoughts for me at one factor. So, in case you pick to be with her, pass for it, earlier it really is too late and also you get screwed over like me.
2016-12-04 22:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by matis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the way you two are acting, either she only wants to be "friends withe benefits" or she really likes you. at the end os a conversation, just say "i love you" if she diesn't like you that much or if she does, either way you will know where you both stand. i hope everything works out! good luck!
2007-02-24 16:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by astralprojector 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just tell her. You guys are obviously very comfortable together. Be honest. That's the best bet and you'll have it all out in the open. You'll be glad you did. Good luck, mate.
2007-02-24 16:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Gemma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmm!Well!It seems that you guys are a couple.For a while.And i think you just need to make sure your together,Like randomly.Maybe in a conversation just say "You know i like you,right?".That's it.
2007-02-24 16:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you like her, I think you lust her. There's a difference. You wouldn't be that intimate with her if you weren't sure if she knew you're in love with her like you say you do.
2007-02-24 16:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by BKelly237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋