Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

ok guys, say u were 17yrs old & ur a senior in high school & u have a girlfriend that u really do love & you guys have been going out for 1year & 6months. Would u want to spend time with her (thats not including spending time at school) or just have fun with your friends & do watever with your friends? You guys also hardly ever go anywhere or hangout together, just at school! Remember you really want to be with her & u love her!!! i need help, what would you do? I would like serious answers to!

2007-02-22 13:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by has_mean07 2 in Singles & Dating

i dated this guy last year and i thought i had gotten over him but me and him started to hang out and he would push me and poke e ang now i have mixed feelings do u think i should ask him out or something else
i just dont know what to do help please
ps thanx

2007-02-22 13:07:10 · 4 answers · asked by soccersam522 3 in Singles & Dating

So my parents have been fighting a lot lately, and its taking a toll on me. Me and my mom are in a big fight on top of that, and my dad wont stick up for me. But, when my brother is in any trouble at all, and they blow up at him, its only a matter of a few minutes or hours before they go up into his room to apologize or see how hes doing. I've been in my room ALL day (not exaggerating) and no one has come up to say theyre sorry or even to check on me. I haven't even had dinner yet, and obviously they dont care about that even. I feel so unloved and I feel that my brother is the one who is more cared for. They call me a liar and blame me for everything. They even call me fat. What kind of parents are these? Please help...I need someone to talk to.

2007-02-22 13:06:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Thre this girl that i like and she likes me
she just broke up wit her bf and shes been allover me ever scince
and today she came over to my neiberhood
she was satring at me/turining away and looking at me
her friend was starting at me to
she asked me if i missed her caze she wont t school and my mind went blank for like a few mintues
tey said were going to goe well see u tomorrow
and it wasnt intill after they left
that i figured out she waz waiting 4 me t ask her out
i think she thinks i stood her up
what should i do?

2007-02-22 13:06:26 · 2 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Singles & Dating

... you knew had a problem with depression? would that make you not want to get involved?

2007-02-22 13:06:16 · 12 answers · asked by Jebbie 7 in Singles & Dating

i reacently broke up with a girl and its akward to be around her but i still want to be friends what do i do?

2007-02-22 13:06:09 · 23 answers · asked by ying yo 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-wife, who had $35K after the sale of our marital home last year, claims now she is in debt and needs to file bankruptcy. $15K of that went to a church to assist in protecting her from "evil people." The other $20K she spent partially on a car and other things such as her rent, utilities, etc. for perhaps a period when she didn't have fulltime work.

She is supposed to start paying $575/mth in child support for our daughter next month who resides solely with me (my ex has mental health issues). But it seems she has no ability -- in her mind -- to contribute her share.

She is also planning on moving out-of-state as she believes her current employer will not keep her employed once they learn she has filed bankruptcy. I told her that wasn't the case but in her mind, this is what she believes.

I really need her portion towards our daughter's care but doesn't seem to be much I can do. It will be very tight for my daughter and I. Anyone have any thoughts?

2007-02-22 13:05:07 · 19 answers · asked by GentleheartedOne 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do looks really matter in a girl?
like are you more obsessed with her hair or her personality? i'm writing an essay on if guys really ARE shallow, or if they look deeper than looks. teenagers only. no-one over 17. thanks.

2007-02-22 13:04:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have the most wonderful fiance - he is everything i ever wanted. We have a good relationship (of course like all relationships it has its ups and downs) and i am pregnant with our first child. I love him deeply and have no doubt that we are meant to be. We have a wonderful sex life and i'm deeply attracted to him.

However - before my fiance and i got together i was with my ex for 5 years. We never really got along - our relationship was rocky all the time but the sex was absolutely mindblowingly fantastic! I really believe (now - in hindsight) that sex was the connecting factor between us - our chemistry was explosive - he was my "first love" (i met him when i was 17) but he was a jerk and i no longer harbour love for him. We are both better off without eachother.

I would never go back to the ex - i would never cheat on my fiance - but sometimes i fantasise about the sexual activities the ex and i would get up to.

Is this wrong? Does this equal betrayal in any way?

2007-02-22 13:04:16 · 14 answers · asked by Smiley One 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well there's this guy in 2 of my classes and he didn't really used to talk to me. But now he does..and quite alot too. Last week I was absent 1 day and so the next day he said "It wasn't the same without you" and sometimes he'll do this weird dance thing and be like "That was for you." And just random things like that. He'll ask to borrow a pen or something and say "Thanks, you're an angel" I can never tell if he's kidding though..lol..he's always acting silly..
The other day he even turned around and read our homework article to me lol. He asked today where I was during an activity during lunch, and we talked alittle more after that. And later he threw a paper ball in my hair..lol..
Well anyways...all of this would make me wonder if he wasn crushin'...But I heard him say to someone when I was near that he likes this girl from another school and he thinks she likes him back.
So what do you think?
Is he flirting/crushing?
Or just being friendly?

2007-02-22 13:03:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

idk what to do.i am a sophomre in hs and dating a senior.I love him and our relationship just some stuff isnt as good as it should and can be.Hell sometimes touch my stomach and stuff even though i HATe it.im really self concious and it bugs me but he says he cant keep his hands off me.also...hes not the most attractive guy ive ever seen.hes so cute to me but sometimes ill walk down the hall in school and hell want to hold my hand but im not so huge on the pda sometimes i dont mind it but other times i do.but if i pull away he makes a comment like oh you wont hold me cause your friend is there or soemthing(my friends HATE pda) and i hear people make fun of him and ask why im giong out with him but they dont even know him and they make fun of him for going out with me-not his friends,they like me but other people in his grade.they call me a kindergartener and some say im ugly but others say im hott but when i hear im ugly it gets to me-bad.what do i do to make this relationship better?

2007-02-22 13:03:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 22+ years and my husband worked
at a university at which I now also work. We have a weird working
relationship because we share the same supervisor and he works
just down from me. We ride to work together, eat lunch together , have 2 breaks together and all but one of the coworkers are male.

Well, I find out this week that my husband has told all our private
intimacies and fights and more all these years, and now they
are being brought up by my coworkers during lunch, breaks
and before work and after. These are private matters and
when I addressed this to him tonight, he just shrugged it off and told me to "bite me".

I told him that if he didn't want me to tell his idiosyncrasies that he
had better tell them to QUIT bringing it up.

should I be this mad?

2007-02-22 13:02:57 · 15 answers · asked by my-stang 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend who is currently in jail might do about a year. He has been in there for about 6 months now. I am not able to assit him with money because I am in the struggle right now. One of his ex-flings which was a hooker ( they didnt do anything she just gave him head) and now says she works IN MACY"S... wrote him a letter seeing how he was doing-because word on the street is that he was currently locked up and the details were already out there. Lady who is 43 years old-is ok looking--she has a lot of money-shes lonley-no children no family except her mom and dad who are loaded. He asked me before he did anything and asked her for some help. She has given him everything that he asked for and so much more. I approved in the beginnning but I feel like crap now that another lady is taking care of my man. What should I DO??

2007-02-22 13:02:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what could a girl do to get a guy to notice her?

2007-02-22 13:02:09 · 27 answers · asked by Reeses' 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my old lady ben going out for 7 months we had sex to gather we loved each other and everything but she dont call we dont talk all we do is look at each other how should i break up with her

2007-02-22 13:01:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him in second grade and fell instantly in love with him. Of coarse I've had other crushes and dated a couple guys since then, but I always compare everyone to him and they just don't measure up. But he is a popular guy and has tons of girl friends and doesn't know that I exist. Or rather that I do exist just not the type of girl that he would ever consider dating. We're both seniors in high school now, and it breaks my heart everytime I see him with someone who's not me. He comes off as being a jerk sometimes with ppl, but there's such a sweet side to him that just makes me melt. I know that the possibilities of us ever being together are extremely small, but the only thing that I would truely wish for him is that he ends up being with someone who deserves him (not neccessarily me) All I want is to talk with him for a little while before we graduate, but I never have any classes with him and everytime I do see him he's with a really nasty girl that I hate. What should I do?

2007-02-22 13:01:43 · 3 answers · asked by mandy_baby 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 13:00:56 · 35 answers · asked by MichiganRocks 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 13:00:54 · 50 answers · asked by chik4jesus 2 in Singles & Dating

well he thinks i have a thing for his best friend.... how do i convince him i dont!

2007-02-22 13:00:52 · 7 answers · asked by girl_next_door_red 3 in Singles & Dating

there is a woman I work with who is 33 and has four children...her husband ( only by common law, they never married) is a complete jerk and has treated her as such for about 15 years. she says she doesn't love him and that she will never marry him...so with that in mind I told her how I felt about her...she was responsive saying I was "generous", "very handsome" "mature" and that she was honored that I felt deeply for her...but she tells me that I am too young for her (im 24) and that I could find much better than her. She also told me that I wouldnt want her after she loses her looks....i know she feels for me also...but I think she's scared...how can I make her feel at ease about this? Should I give her time, tell her how much she means to me, constantly reassure her of my intentions etc....hopefully some of you can give me a little help...thanks

2007-02-22 12:59:40 · 6 answers · asked by joemoe23 2 in Singles & Dating

I have decided to wear a red wedding dress. My mom said its so untraditional and my grandmothers says in her culture it a tradtional color for weddings. I refuse to wear white because its suppose to sybolize purity and we all know about some of the people who wear white and im far from that. WHat to do my folks are acting a fool. Whats some other wedding dress color ideas?

2007-02-22 12:59:14 · 21 answers · asked by Akasha 2 in Weddings

this guy told me he likes me and i told him i like him too......buit he says he likes the other girl more and so i say sarcastically...good luck with her and he says thanks
does this make him a complete jerk????
should i still like him

2007-02-22 12:58:49 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Understood 1 in Singles & Dating

for love making? My boyfriend and I've yet to make love. Sure, we've talked about it and thought our first time would be "making love", but the sex we've had since then has been animalistic. I want to actually make love and show him how much he means to me. How can I set the mood for this? I have a jungle themed bedroom, with a cali-king size leopard bed.

2007-02-22 12:58:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-22 12:58:24 · 27 answers · asked by cows_rule94 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when im talking to my friends i can`t speak i either studer or say nothing and they get bored and leave marcell washington is so hipe and ghetto i wanna be like him but im afraid i will say something stupid and embarris my self

2007-02-22 12:58:24 · 5 answers · asked by majorbabeprincess 2 in Friends

I would really appreciate it.

2007-02-22 12:57:37 · 7 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Friends

Just wondering if anyone knows a good place online that I can order fake flowers for a wedding. But I have a tight budget. If you know of anywhere that sells them for a decent price I would love to know. Thanx

2007-02-22 12:56:19 · 6 answers · asked by lexmo 2 in Weddings

Ok, I am 12 years old and I have a half brother. My dad got married to a lady, had him, got divorced, and married my mom. I am a very spolied person, not a poor person. My bro is bipolar, and a while back he bagn having achoholic problems. He has now been sober for about a year, and recently moved to Colorado (I live in Texas). He doesn't have a car or anything. I am extremely shy and it is always completley awkward arounh him, and now I won't get to see him for possible years. Any suggestions how to maybe help otu relationship? (I can nto call him, he does nto have a computer)

2007-02-22 12:55:41 · 2 answers · asked by Project Runway Lover 2 in Family

On one hand, my husband is a great husband and father. He works hard, makes very good money, is very responsible, does not hang out (or even go out!), is patient and loving with his kids, and me, too, most of the time.

However, when we disagree, he becomes a totally different person. He belittles me, makes personal attacks, disagrees with me just to provoke me, etc. And, he does one thing that really hurts my heart... he lies to me ABOUT ME! For instance, he'll say "you always to that" or "I've seen you do that before" to something I honestly have never done or said. I often feel like he's trying to make me think I'm crazy and be emotionally manipulative. Anyway, I don't fight or get mad. I just stay silent b/c I HATE to fight. I just walk away and yes, continue to resent him. I keep thinking about divorce b/c we just can't communicate our negative feelings. If you can't resolve issues in a marriage, what hope is there??? Help! What should I do?

2007-02-22 12:55:23 · 11 answers · asked by Falina T. Rayon 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents say i have to be 16 and thats 4 a group date i can be 17 to date alone stupid

2007-02-22 12:55:03 · 7 answers · asked by cows_rule94 1 in Singles & Dating