how do i open up to my friends?

Question

when im talking to my friends i can`t speak i either studer or say nothing and they get bored and leave marcell washington is so hipe and ghetto i wanna be like him but im afraid i will say something stupid and embarris my self

Answer 1

omg i know exactly how you feel.
(or maybe i don't...but i just assume that i do)
:] lol. but it's like you don't want to say something stupid, because they'll think you're a weirdo, and you want to be smooth at the same time. well i'm still working on this trick. but i figured out that girls don't want "hip" and "controled" friends all the time. they want someone weird and fun, who will lift them up. so just be loud. say what you want. just say something random like "mr.schwartzeneger is so weird" or "omg i didn't finish my homework". it's ok. just be you.

Answer 2

there is nothing better then being yourself. If you say something stupid then oh well...laugh it off. I say retarded things in front of my friends all the time and oh course they make fun of me but its funny. It took me a while to fully open up to my friends. I didn't fully open up till the beginning of this year...and I have been friends with some of them for 12 years. I have no secrets now...in any aspect of my life...and I mean any. Don't try to be someone that you aren't. The more relaxed you are then the more they will tend to like you and open up to you. Become really good friends with one person then help each other find other friends. Hope I helped a little.

Answer 3

if they are your friends, they shouldn't accuse you of saying stupid things (even if something "stupid" does leak out once in a while).

Answer 4

just do it. everybody id probably felt the same way you have at one time or another.

Answer 5

try to express yourself through your actions, my frinds do that, and unfortunatly, one of them acts..well...g@y