So my parents have been fighting a lot lately, and its taking a toll on me. Me and my mom are in a big fight on top of that, and my dad wont stick up for me. But, when my brother is in any trouble at all, and they blow up at him, its only a matter of a few minutes or hours before they go up into his room to apologize or see how hes doing. I've been in my room ALL day (not exaggerating) and no one has come up to say theyre sorry or even to check on me. I haven't even had dinner yet, and obviously they dont care about that even. I feel so unloved and I feel that my brother is the one who is more cared for. They call me a liar and blame me for everything. They even call me fat. What kind of parents are these? Please help...I need someone to talk to.
2007-02-22 13:06:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I feel for you sweetie. If you want to, you can email me I know how it feels feeling that you are all alone with no friends. I hate that you feel like and your parents are not treating right. Please talk to a friend or a counselor too and I hope everything gets better for you.
Sending a big HUG to you!
2007-02-22 13:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents fight, nobody can live togather and not fight.
If you bro is younger than you than maybe thats why they check on him and make sure he is ok. I guess they suppose you being older
that ur ok and oviously ur not. Or maybe they think you brother is
more senstive. Whatever the case why don't you try talking to them
they won't know how you feel until you do. Now if this is a normal
thing and they fight all the time and there is lots of upheavel in the house maybe you should talk to a councilor after you try talking to a parent. I wish you luck I grew up in a combat zone. My parents
fought all the time and then would fight with me. I felt like I had no one. Please reach out to some one localy, a teacher, councilor,doctor, friend,anyone.
My best wishes.
Morgaine
2007-02-22 21:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I'm really sorry about your situation and I have never been in the same myself so it's very hard to answer your question. But I have felt very unloved before my parents just weren't around. It's very hard to cope feeling that you have no one or that no one even cares, but you keep your head up and I think if you haven't brought up your feelings to your family I think that you should and if they won't listen could you talk to your brother maybe? I wish I could give you more advice. the best thing I can tell you is that you are important and you are loved, please never doubt that and believe that if you speak your feelings to people that might not notice what they are doing to you, it may make a world of difference.
So once again keep your head up and take care.
2007-02-22 21:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I feel your pain. Anyways, you can always call some hotline numbers like the ones on these sites:
http://www.pamf.org/teen/hotlines.html
http://www.teensurfer.com/teenhelp.htm
these numbers are open 24 hours a day 7 days a week. They are professionals that will talk to you and wont ask for your name or address. *well maybe ur FIRST name but nothing more* they are there for your convenience and can help you and give you advice *and its free*.
I would talk to your parents about how you feel or talk to ur school counseler about it. You may want to think about talking to ur brother and ask him if he can mention you to ur parents for you. It may be helpful if the "favorite child" talk to ur parents.
good luck. i hope everything works out :]
2007-02-22 21:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by bribabygirl5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Do you think you're a worthwhile person? Because if you don't, no one else will. Be bigger than that pettiness and focus on something important. I grew up in an unhappy home and I drew my strength from the fact that one day, I'd be able to walk out the door and live my life how I wanted to. It helps!
2007-02-22 21:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every single human on the face of the earth is ultimately lonely. Is anyone born with his/ her life plotted out to full perfection? NO. No one really knows his purpose perfectly. But by going on searching 4 this purpose all our lives, we're really forgetting to live. Don't go looking for answers. If you're sure you're asking the right questions, then, the truth & ur purpose in life will unfold itself in the right time. trust me, we don't have to know all the answers to be happy. just live to the fullest and more importantly, PRAY. it works, really....
2007-02-22 22:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by AS_Sweets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are the parents who doesn't deserve to be called parents ..... clearout things between you and your parents ....tell them how you feel when they only care about your bro ...... if they won't listen to u then u are not alone ..... same here ...... don't feel unloved coz someday somebody is gonna come and love u more than anybody
2007-02-22 21:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ritu m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry for all that. It sounds exactly what i was going through. You just have to know in your heart that they love you. They always have and they always will. You may feel like they dont love you, but they do and they probably just need time to cool off. Im sorry, Good luck!
2007-02-22 21:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can talk to me at anytime you need! you have my email from here! if you need to talk talk to me! i have had the same problem. the thing is talk to your parents if you feel this way. catch them in a good mood and tell them that they need to stop treating you like sh*t
2007-02-22 21:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am sure your parents love you.
your always loved ma, if its not your parents. its your friends or g-parents...some one in the world loves you....your always loved by someone
2007-02-22 21:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by warmachine8787 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋