I've loved him since second grade, what should I do?

Question

I met him in second grade and fell instantly in love with him. Of coarse I've had other crushes and dated a couple guys since then, but I always compare everyone to him and they just don't measure up. But he is a popular guy and has tons of girl friends and doesn't know that I exist. Or rather that I do exist just not the type of girl that he would ever consider dating. We're both seniors in high school now, and it breaks my heart everytime I see him with someone who's not me. He comes off as being a jerk sometimes with ppl, but there's such a sweet side to him that just makes me melt. I know that the possibilities of us ever being together are extremely small, but the only thing that I would truely wish for him is that he ends up being with someone who deserves him (not neccessarily me) All I want is to talk with him for a little while before we graduate, but I never have any classes with him and everytime I do see him he's with a really nasty girl that I hate. What should I do?

Answer 1

Go for it girl!! Walk up to him at lunch, even if he is with the girl you don't like. What's worse, getting brushed off or spending your whole life wondering what could have been? But hey, you could get lucky and form a lasting relationship. Don't sit on the sidelines...go TALK TO HIM.

Answer 2

yea i think you shoud tell him b/c i did the same thing and we are dating and its the greatest thing in the world i think you should go for it my best friend is in the same spot like you are only fact is that she hasnt known him since second grade its only been about a year but you should go for it gurl go talk to him and she says anything kick her *** and show him who really loves/ likes him

Answer 3

I think you should tell him how you feel and then leave it to him. Atleast you will be at peace with yourself.