me and my old lady ben going out for 7 months we had sex to gather we loved each other and everything but she dont call we dont talk all we do is look at each other how should i break up with her
2007-02-22 13:01:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
email her or write her a letter explaining why you don't want to be with her. Sometimes you get your point across more when you write it down.
2007-02-22 13:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by dolphinnut798 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all I think you should try to talk to her, ask her what is going on, why she is not calling you... maybe she needs to tell you something but doesn't know how to, the key to a very successful relationship/friendship is comunication. Don't put her under pressure tho, be polite... if doing that you still get nothing then you should break up with her, it means that she's not interested in a relationship with you anymore cuz if she did she would trust you and tell you how she feels... Just tell her how YOU feel and that you think you guys are not meant for each other, simple as that.
2007-02-22 21:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? DeSi ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you think you guys should see other people because it doesn't seem like she wants to be in the relationship any more than you do. Tell her it's not exciting anymore and she doesn't give you as much attention. Sometimes people fall out of love, we can only hope someone else will be there to catch them, you know?
2007-02-22 21:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by KiSSme&beINt0xiCaTeD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds as if this is just communication problems. have you tried working it out with her, like telling her that you guys need to talk, instead of looking at each other? if not, try that to salvage your relationship. if it doesn't work, then tell her directly that things aren't working out. don't beat around the bush, write her a letter, or tell someone to do it for you. just sit her down and tell her the truth. good luck!
2007-02-22 21:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it gently.
If she doesn't call you and you don't talk to each other then there isn't much hope of you reconciling.
You should have an open conversation and hopefully it is a mutual separation.
2007-02-22 21:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think it is time to move on. you both are slowly drifting apart. it is healthy for the both of you to go and find someone else and start a new relationship. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-22 21:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with her and tell her what you told us and let her know that you dont want to be with her, or that if things dont change you are leaving her. she might not know how you feel, so at least give her the chance to change, and if she doesnt, then it is her loss. that was what i had to do with my mama's boy fiance, give him the chance to change and then kick his A$$ to the curb.
2007-02-22 21:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her things are not working out and you have decided it is better to just be friends.
2007-02-22 21:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In front of 3,000 people. Check it out on break.com. It's pretty funny
2007-02-22 21:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by somerandomguy702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what happened to your relationship and try to tell her that u can't resist her anymore and wanna break up
2007-02-22 21:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋