for love making? My boyfriend and I've yet to make love. Sure, we've talked about it and thought our first time would be "making love", but the sex we've had since then has been animalistic. I want to actually make love and show him how much he means to me. How can I set the mood for this? I have a jungle themed bedroom, with a cali-king size leopard bed.
2007-02-22 12:58:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
People often confuse lust with love, and love making should be pationate. Dont just throw yourselves right into having sex, take it slow and make it meaningful, get the mood right by just kissing for a while, having some candles lit, talking about how much your love means to him, and maybe perhaps instead of screeming while your enjoying the moment, try saying i love you, i love you, and do take it into another affect, go about it in a different way and see what happens.
2007-02-22 13:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, u know, I'm a virgin, Ive just had 1 girlfriend, and I;m 17, but what I think is that you guys need to let it happen, most of the great relationships start with accidents, things that happen that make the couple get closer, if you force it, you won't get it as you should.
To be succesfull in these things, you gotta be of those persons who believe in love, in enjoying the right way with the right people, and open minded. Let yourself go into the jungle, share your fantasies together and take him like a lion takes his prey, without questioning or doubting, that should light the fire, tighten the trust, and put him at your feet like a doggy. GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-22 21:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by mr. luis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need a bar and some beer signs.
Put some porn on the tv and lower the lights.
Cmon, you two have already had sex. so this "making love" stuff is the same thing only slower.
Always gotta make everything so dramatic.
You have a jungle theme bedroom and leopard sheets for christ sake.
Just do it like on the Discovery channel and be happy.
2007-02-22 22:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you better figure the mood out, cause sex to us guys is like peeing and going to the bank, we want to do it often and just make a deposit...
2007-02-22 21:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by prop4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋