Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

Her Mom works there to so it is very hard to flirt with her since her Mom is watching all the time. She is a college student so she only work there part-time and it is hard to get a chance to talk to her and I don't want to be a "stalker" and following her around. Help!!!!!!

2007-02-21 18:15:24 · 9 answers · asked by pigboykool 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this problem with my security, I'm very insecure, I fear things alot and have alot of doubts about things, and this mostly takes place in my relationships. I've been going out with this guy for over 6months, it's taking me some time to get use to him and trust him, I see him just about every weekend and during the week when I am at work, I want to call him, but I don't want him to think I'm being clingy so I hope he calls me and sometimes when he doesn't I get scared of our relationship even more and feel more insecure, he's been unemployed for 5 months and he's had difficulty finding a job so I spoke to my boss and we got him a job he started there this week, I'm just afraid that he's gonna lose interest in me....maybe coz I do tarot reading online and the cards today told me that there could possibly be a break-up in a close relationship, it's making me scared, I'm seeing him tomorrow and I'm afraid that he will change his mind... eeek!

2007-02-21 18:15:14 · 20 answers · asked by Sheepless 1 in Singles & Dating

i loved my ex very much and i can't move on with my life.. i keep thinking about him.. what should i do? should i call him back and tell him how much i love him and would like to patch back with him? we just broken up 3 days' ago and I already feel that it is the end of the world

2007-02-21 18:13:15 · 15 answers · asked by alluring1314 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do without ur better half? can u seriously close ur eyes and picture ur life without them....how do you feel when u do dat? when i think about my boyfriend not being in my life it hurts because i love him more than life itself and i know he feels the same about me.

2007-02-21 18:11:37 · 6 answers · asked by annawuvzchris 4 in Singles & Dating

How did U get over your low self-esteem or get it high enough so U could start dating. I’m finding that every time a guy looks at me and smiles I look away or down at whatever’s in my hands at the time. (this doesn't happen a lot, but when it does I react the same to it) I’m not crushing on them, but I’m pretty sure it has something to do with my low self-esteem. I, also, think this is a reaction to thought that most guys @ my college don’t want to be bothered by me. Most of the time when I’m in the cyber café I hear guys talking about, “Yo! She looks good! She looks like a model, man.” I wouldn’t fit that description. I’m big enough to be a plus sized model, but I don’t have the looks for it. I know there are guys who like big girls, but they are few and far between at my college.

Help plz.

2007-02-21 18:08:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do they just say wad is necessary n hang up?

2007-02-21 18:08:27 · 6 answers · asked by lemondevil88 2 in Singles & Dating

To me, the buttercream sounds good but I don't know. I've never tasted fodant. Which is tastier? And is there any price difference between the two?

2007-02-21 18:08:26 · 26 answers · asked by July 1 in Weddings

She's damn hot.....and I'm feeling a little jealous. I hate this feeling,...does this mean I'm still having feelings for him?

2007-02-21 18:08:20 · 5 answers · asked by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay awhile ago, I had this guy friend that I met online and online we hit it off. On my end, he wasn't cute but he kept me on my toes so I was emotionally attached. Then we met about 4-5 months later and as usual he wasn't attracted to me yet we kept talking as friends. He was very lonely and wanted a girlfriend so I went out of my way to hook him up with a friend of mine and well the so called friend of mine told him lies after lies after lies about me that lead him to stop talking to me. Now my other friend started talking to him and claimed I was possesive, I was stalkerish, I should've got the hint when he and my other friend hooked up. If I was so bad from the get-go like he claims, why would he continue to talk to me for 4-5 months? Why wouldn't he confront me about the things that he was being told about me? He's not ended it with my so called friend and onto someone else but doesn't he think if I really wanted the whole fatal attraction thing, I wouldn't have hooked him up.

2007-02-21 18:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was friends with this girl for years and she slept with the first guy I loved right after I left town. I found it in my heart to forgive her but she continued to display signs that she was untrustworthy and a disloyal friend. I ended the relationship with her. Now my boyfriend of 3 and a half years (not the one that slept with her) hangs out with her b/c his best friend and she became friends while she and I were still friends. It really upsets me that he hangs out with her when they were never friends and she hurt me so immensely. He just doesn't understand why I can't be friends with her, someone who hurt me in many ways. How do I make him understand why I can't spend time with her and why I wish he wouldn't either?

2007-02-21 18:07:05 · 6 answers · asked by wave5tide 1 in Singles & Dating

guys can vouch for me, and girls are in denial. I figured this out a long time ago... but I was watching this MTV show, the one were a girl interviews two guys in a date setting and unknown to them her friend is in a servalance van and tells the chick on the date when one of the guys is lying or not. Well i watched three episodes and i noticed the girl always picked the guy who lied the most. Proof!

2007-02-21 18:06:52 · 8 answers · asked by Jesters Deadd 2 in Singles & Dating

CAN I WEAR a 'Top HAT' [ with a TUX] in A church wedding

2007-02-21 18:06:49 · 17 answers · asked by whoeddy 1 in Weddings

I' m a black woman that live in that lives in the heart of dixie:) Why is it more acceptable for black guys to date white women than it is for black women to date white men.It seem to me that black men get attitudes when it's the other way around.

2007-02-21 18:06:36 · 13 answers · asked by Ms Honee 4 in Singles & Dating

A man I have known well for many yrs, admired, respected and been quite attracted to called me 2 days ago. He heard I had lost my husband (it's been almost 2 yrs).
This man possesses so much of what I have hoped for, so much of what I want. Totally masculine, untamed, in control. Everything in me wants to lay at his feet...
Great food, much wine, we talked into the night. The yrs totally melted and I found he felt much the same about me that I felt about him.
Last night he returned, things got much warmer. Low lights, more wine, perfect mood, both of us clearly and completely lost in each other. Then it happened. I blew it. Can't even explain it. I totally and completely withdrew. He left confused.
Today I wrote him. Totally humbled myself, put myself on my knees (so to speak). I explained my fears but deep desire to know him, to give myself to him.
So, what say you, guys? Will he answer positively? Reject me? What might YOU do? Should I hope? Or not?

2007-02-21 18:05:47 · 12 answers · asked by Ande 4 in Singles & Dating

, since i also have strong attraction for him and he is drop dead gorgeous , and when he is around me in parties ,he does not pay any attention to his wife and he hangs around the area that i am and constantly tells me with his eyes that i am attracted to you, he started this way after he found out thru some documents that i have been very financially and socially successful and have made 3 times more than his brother makes in a year and i have managed the household very well and have made my husband a happy and successful man , before he didnot believe that a girl like me as a foreigner can accomplish that much due to the influence from his mom that always put me down.and told every one that she is not the winner, it is my son who has accomplished so much.now he found out by accident for himself that she was wrong about me and all she did was to back stab me and show me as a loser if she had not portrayed me like that i would have had my life with him than my present husband.

2007-02-21 18:04:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OMG, it's like a bad dream came true....I really do find a very ugly man attractive!!! Do I need to see a shrink?? I think I am losing my mind....

2007-02-21 18:04:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 18:03:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im really shy so i dont say anything to her when i see her(everyday) but she usually looks at me like she wants to say hi..but recently she stopped..i guess she gave up..but i recently sent her an e-mail saying i was sry for not sayin hi to her when i see her..and i asked her how she was doing and i havent gotten a responce..its been like 5 days..so wat u you guess think is going through her head? i really like her too..so im going crazy waiting for a responce..

2007-02-21 18:02:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

into you?

2007-02-21 18:01:10 · 8 answers · asked by cefurx 1 in Singles & Dating

es. My 6 th one is coming up in a few months. I really don't do anything, and I really can't shake this feeling. It seems like nobody understands me. I know I should be happy, but i'm not. My Mom asked my if I wanted to see a "head doctor" but I really don't want to just sit around and tell someone about my feelings. Do you have any advice for me?

2007-02-21 18:00:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I let him go but I told him not to stay long,as his bro dont invite him and also blames me for his 1st girl left him;actually she had an affair but she told because my lover is with me(divorcee with one child) it seem its a disgrace to her that is why she left;I am very angry and hurt. Do youthink my lover should go and give the reason that its his duty???

2007-02-21 18:00:32 · 2 answers · asked by Larisha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-21 17:59:49 · 14 answers · asked by HeiglLee 2 in Family

my best friend likes sum1 and she asked me 2 ask him out for her. this normally isnt a problem for me but i like him too. but she doesnt know. i really like him, but i dont want to let her down. we have been bffs for like 8 years! what should i do??

2007-02-21 17:59:15 · 7 answers · asked by some1 hoo u dont no 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 17:57:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to wright about i amn a social person i attant all fancation in society about marrige attant wht i enjoy

2007-02-21 17:57:10 · 5 answers · asked by ravi 1 in Weddings

i am a girl studiying in class 10.i had joined a school last year and there a a boy in my class fell in love with me but i am not interested in him i have said him so many time but still he likes me.how to get rid of him

2007-02-21 17:56:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-21 17:56:27 · 7 answers · asked by Double R 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf went on a double date with his best friend and hid gf. I needed a lift home so his best friend dropped me home.the next thing i knew we were in bed

2007-02-21 17:56:15 · 23 answers · asked by emilia a 1 in Singles & Dating

My new man and I have been talkin for about 2 months. We have known each other for like 10 years and have been friends for like 4 years. He has had feelings for me the entire time, but I have always been in other relationships. We finally decided to take it to the next level, and everything is going really good. We love spending time together and there is a lot of chemistry between us. We have talked about having sex and it is obvious how bad we want each other, but when it comes down to it, neither of us make the move. I think it is because we have known each other so long and we like each other so much we are scared that sex would ruin everything. What can I do to ease this transition? Guys, could there be another reason he has not tried to have sex with me yet that I'm not considering? I would love to hear as many opinions as possible. (We are both consenting adults so please consider that when answering.) Thanks.

2007-02-21 17:55:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After coming back from 2 weeks business trip, our clean house turned into a big mess. How do you motivate your wife to keep the house clean? Her excuse is work is too busy and she is tired.

2007-02-21 17:55:27 · 15 answers · asked by Xman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships