how to get rid of a boy who is in love with me?

Question

i am a girl studiying in class 10.i had joined a school last year and there a a boy in my class fell in love with me but i am not interested in him i have said him so many time but still he likes me.how to get rid of him

Answer 1

tell him frankly that you are not loving him and advise him to concentrate on studies.if you don't tell him, that you are not in love with him , he may think that you are loving him.

Answer 2

I know what I will tell you to will will sound really really low, but this seems to be a stubborn boy, so try to convince a close guy friend to be your "temporary boyfriend". Make sure to tell your guy friend your plot, he should hopefully understand your situation.

Use "Public Display of Affection" around him so he can just give up. You don't have to kiss or do anything further with your friend, but holding hands, smiling around him and giggling around him will make you two seem like a couple. When this is all done, make sure to make the "break-up" unpublicized as much as possible.

If the boy that likes you asks why you like your "boyfriend" then tell him that you've been with him for a long time.

If he still tries to get you, YELL AT HIM.

Scream out your emotions to him in front of a crowd at school. He deserves it for stalking you. His reputation will go down alot, but it should now be clear to him that you are not interested.

Answer 3

how r u so sure that he is in love with u? at ur age there is no such thing as love, its just liking. love is a very advanced stage of feeling and it develops only after a long relationship which is time tested for all ups and downs. this boy is having a crush on u which is the term used for such kind of spontaneous emotional affiliation with opposite sex who is physically attractive. it has nothing to do with love. so my advice to u is that first of all this boy is not in love with u, 2nd u can be liked by a number of people, u cant stop people liking u or wanting to be ur friend. but its ur choice to decide who is allowed to enter into the inner circle of your friendship. u cant get rid of this guy buy just disregarding him, he will keep coming back and be on your nerves.
solution: take one of your friend along and go talk to this guy face to face. ask him a straight question, What do you want? he would say i love u and i want to be friend with u. say, u r a good guy (dont overdo it) but i dont want to be your friend as it is my own choice, so dont waste ur time here and dont try to come close to me or i will tell my teacher or father or guardian etc.
if u will stay away from me than may be i will think of u as a person worthy of friendship but if u will keep invading my life then ur proving that ur not my friend as u have no respect for my feelings.
thanks

Answer 4

Just draw the line and don't be friendly with him or give him any hope, eventually he will move on. You should not be mean or hurful towards him because it's not nice to break some one's heart, but if you just avoid him as much as possible, he'll understand that he doesn't stand a chance. If you are nice and friendly to him you'll continue to keep his hopes up.

Answer 5

Usually what I do when someone I don't like likes me (this sounds bizarre but it works for me) is I'll go out to dinner with them or whatever and then tell them that I want to marry them. They make think I'm crazy but they leave me alone, I don't know what I'd do if they thought it was a good idea though.

Answer 6

I know how you feel(DISGUSTING may be) but you cant get rid of the boy b'coz he will always be there. My advise just ignore him, when he say he......... you just make don't know, if you accidentally bump into him well turn your back and go away.

OK here's another one, you settle it face to face. You tell him properly, i know you said that you've told him but try again until he understand what you mean. tell him how you feel about him (THE TRUTH). Hope this will help you.

Answer 7

u can't get rid if him....he's also feeling quite hurt with your rejection.....u can still befriend with him but don't any affection towards him or u're giving him the wrong message......let time pass n' he'll feel better.....introduce him more girls if possible...good luck!!!

Answer 8

I'd tell him what a nice guy he is and how you don't want to ruin your chance of being his friend----then fade to zero

Answer 9

act all wierd to get him out of ur way.

one question. are u somalian cause im am. not much people are cause i reconize the name saida. my names amina

Answer 10

just treat him as a friend. maybe he only wants to be with you. but if he became a pest, stay away from him.