Okay awhile ago, I had this guy friend that I met online and online we hit it off. On my end, he wasn't cute but he kept me on my toes so I was emotionally attached. Then we met about 4-5 months later and as usual he wasn't attracted to me yet we kept talking as friends. He was very lonely and wanted a girlfriend so I went out of my way to hook him up with a friend of mine and well the so called friend of mine told him lies after lies after lies about me that lead him to stop talking to me. Now my other friend started talking to him and claimed I was possesive, I was stalkerish, I should've got the hint when he and my other friend hooked up. If I was so bad from the get-go like he claims, why would he continue to talk to me for 4-5 months? Why wouldn't he confront me about the things that he was being told about me? He's not ended it with my so called friend and onto someone else but doesn't he think if I really wanted the whole fatal attraction thing, I wouldn't have hooked him up.
2007-02-21 18:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Once he and my so called friend started dating he stopped talking to me out of the blue...No explaination no nothing and so my friend started talking to him and got the whole story.
2007-02-21 18:13:02 · update #1
At the time how was I suppose to know? I don't care to ever talk to the so called friend again but why did he just stop talking to me all together ?? We'd text each other at least 75 times a day, he'd call me to keep him awake on his drive home from concerts, and I realize now I was used but what did I do that was so wrong for him to hurt me in the way that he did? I wasn't going to kill myself if he and I didn't get together, I thought I was being a good friend. WHY
2007-02-21 18:15:34 · update #2
I don't want him back as anything in my life, I just want to know what would make anyone do something as mean as that ?? I knew he wasn't into me and I accepted that, couldn't he be a little grateful that I didn't break down in tears over him ??
2007-02-21 18:20:56 · update #3
Spare yourself any further agony and just forget the bloke. Forget your so-called friend, too, for that matter. You deserve a lot better.
2007-02-21 18:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl the same thing happened to me! Its happening to me right now! I have been talking to guy online and we were talking for like 5 months maybe longer. I got my so called friend involved and she basically stabbed me right in the back...told a bunch of lies about me and everything! He agreed with her and ran off with her...so what am I left coldhearted and dumbfounded! I can't believe her! She had some friken nerve! You know what I did, dropped her like a pancake on pavement....I got tired of her manipulating me like that...not only with him, but with everything else....and I realized he never really wasn't a true friend either running off with her...So I left both of them! I feel a HECK of a lot better, no more drama no more pain honey....you just say no to both of them and leave them...THEY ARE NOT WORTH YOUR TIME! LIVE YOUR FRIGGIN' LIFE TO THE FULLEST! Don't be afraid to say no girl, because thats the only thing that will get you away from your issues for good!
And like you said, he was using you, for his own personal benefit! Find some friends who are nice and respectful of you...don't waste one minute trying to figure that bloke and broad out! You'll waste your time and energy! I know you deserve better than that!
2007-02-21 18:16:48 · answer #3 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl friend might feel threatened that you might have thing for the guy you introduced her. If you show that you're not a threat and get a boyfriend then may be she'll back off. She may not admitt it up front, but that could be one reason why she's became hostile. She is possesive.
2007-02-21 18:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel for your self what kind of guy is this. Guys like us does not rely on gossips in making judgment.
2007-02-21 18:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by dondatu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a very lucky person if this guy falls for someone else. your friend"?" is insecure enough to tell lies about you to get a guy.let them have each other.find someone who is stable!
2007-02-21 18:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is way too much drama try finding some people who have better things to do with their time than diss you
2007-02-21 18:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by gwen0674 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl move on and find better friends.
2007-02-21 18:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by JeanMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you continue "talking " to him?
2007-02-21 18:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋