we just broke up and I feel like dying...?

Question

i loved my ex very much and i can't move on with my life.. i keep thinking about him.. what should i do? should i call him back and tell him how much i love him and would like to patch back with him? we just broken up 3 days' ago and I already feel that it is the end of the world

Answer 1

i no da feelings.....u can live without him...u just dont want too.....


listen if u luv this guy then u will try hard to move on becuz chances r u will get hurt more if u call him and try to get back with him....dont u no how guys r nowadays? he will go and talk big to his boys and they will laugh at u and everything....just forget him and move on becuz everything happens for a reason just remember dat and keep ur head high no1 can bring u down....trust me.

Answer 2

First of all im so sorry for the break up but this is what I think. As long as there is love in the relationship you can fix anything and give it another try. I always thought that once the love is gone theres nothing else you can do about it. If you think that he loves you just as well, then by all means patch it up and stop this non sense. My husband is in Iraq right now, he has been there for 6 months, I wish he was here...so just think about that, you have him there with you...take advantage of that. Love is a very beautiful thing don't waste your time anymore and call him.

Answer 3

Im in the same boat as of three days ago. We can take comfort in that the dying-hungover feeling will pass. I felt like I was forcing a makeup on my ex for the first two days and that was a mistake, made it worse. should of been more careful and used gentler language... the big thing was space- some people need space after an argument and some people need to be comforted. getting some sleep would help you. hope it works out.

Answer 4

You probably don't want to have your feeling reduced to their physiological bases, but perhaps it will help. Love uses the same biological cycle as do drugs, gambling addiction, etc. Biologically, you are currently addicted to your ex. Being without him, you are experiencing withdrawal.

If you feel that your relationship was not worth it, then I'd suggest you do not attempt to restart it.

Your path to recovery will be much the same as would be quitting cigarettes. Without him in your life, your brain will eventually weed him out of the addiction area. Regrettably there is no ex-partner patch--you'll just have to get through it with your strength and the support of others, or whatever helps you out.

I think it will help you to think about this on a biological level--if you are done with your ex and you do not want to be with him, then don't get thoughts of love involved in the situation.. it is only addiction that currently plays a role.

Good luck.

Answer 5

shame i can just imagine how u must feel i dont know what i will do without my love. i no its easier said then done but time is a good healer. its normal if u still miss him and love him.i mean he was a part of ur life.what ever the reason was of breaking up u shud think of it this way maybe u both can find sumone new to love and be happy. its only selfish of being in a relationship and u were unhappy.why dont u just ask him if u could be friends, in this way he still a little part of your life. sorry 4 what ur going through. i dont even know u but if i were close i wud of given u a hug so here is a longdistance hug...got it...hope so.gud luck.

Answer 6

Call him back, and if he doesn't answer go over his house, and tell him CLEARLY what you feel! don't wait! this way you will never look back with regret!
do this only
if the relationship wasn't hurting you emotionally or physically, or he is simply not the right person for you--know that time heals, and soon you will meet the perfect person for you! either way, don't lose hope, and----- breaking up is always hard on anyone!!

Answer 7

Depending on the reason for breakup. If you all left on good standards, I say definitely call him. If on bad standards, get some of your girlfriends together and have a night on the town. Mix with people, and find out about yourself. There is a Mr. and Mrs. Right for everyone.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

I can relate. My husband of 22 years just left me. I don't have much advice as I am new to the situation myself. I wish you well. Broken hearts hurt so much...keep breathing...stay strong...

Answer 10

be strong mine ended 2 day,s ago feel like crying all the time..or phoning him to take me back but that,s not the answer...you,ll get there in the end just like i will...good luck x