She's damn hot.....and I'm feeling a little jealous. I hate this feeling,...does this mean I'm still having feelings for him?
2007-02-21 18:08:20 · 5 answers · asked by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably not. You just don't want him to be happy without you. It's a totally selfish feeling but we all have them. The only thing you can do is just try not to let it affect you. I still wish my ex would be alone and miserable without me and I know he's with someone else. I just tell myself he's probably not happy and why would he be? He's not with me. lol
It's hard to deal with but you just have to realize that people move on in life. She might be hot but she might also be a huge moron. She might annoy the holy hell out of him everytime she opens her mouth and the sex might be horrible. You never really know the reality and believe me, the fantasy of what you think they have going is far from the reality of it. Try not to let it bother you and just tell yourself that he's miserable because you're fabulous and you're not in his life anymore. It's HIS loss, not yours.
2007-02-21 18:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say you are having feelings for him, you are just so taken back by the fact that he finds it so easy to replace you. I am sure that he tried to find someone fast, probably to make you somewhat jealous for not being with him anymore, and also to soothe his ego and help him feel better about not having you in his life.
Let him go out with anyone he wants to...he is not a part of your life now so move on, let him get his kicks from whatever, but don't waste your time thinking about being jealous. You split up for a reason and I am sure it was a good one.
2007-02-22 02:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no becuz that is how i felt when my x-bf got a new gf and i had moved on....its just a feeling u still have left over and when u c him with someone else u hate it becuz everything they do together now was wat u guys used to do....its just hard to explain but u no deep down that u dont like him da way u used to.....i guess da memories make it hard to completely forget ur x......
2007-02-22 02:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it... i was in the same boat... my gf and i broke up and she started dating this dude 3 months later that was well a hell of a catch for her... i felt jealous a bit... i felt better when he cheated on her:)
2007-02-22 02:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jesters Deadd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it does...its normal.but like u said u moved on so he also has a rite to move on.time is a good healer.just give it some time ull get over it. dont show ur jealousy coz it makes u nasty. be happy for him that he is happy.
2007-02-22 02:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by tinkabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋