, since i also have strong attraction for him and he is drop dead gorgeous , and when he is around me in parties ,he does not pay any attention to his wife and he hangs around the area that i am and constantly tells me with his eyes that i am attracted to you, he started this way after he found out thru some documents that i have been very financially and socially successful and have made 3 times more than his brother makes in a year and i have managed the household very well and have made my husband a happy and successful man , before he didnot believe that a girl like me as a foreigner can accomplish that much due to the influence from his mom that always put me down.and told every one that she is not the winner, it is my son who has accomplished so much.now he found out by accident for himself that she was wrong about me and all she did was to back stab me and show me as a loser if she had not portrayed me like that i would have had my life with him than my present husband.
2007-02-21 18:04:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get a divorce. Don't cheat on your husband. If you want someone else you need to tell him and end the relationship. If you don't you will end up hurting everyone, including yourself.
2007-02-21 18:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might be finanically & socially successful but your morals leave alot to be desired. You're married dear. So is your husband's brother. I don't care what you think someone's eyes are telling you, he's off limits. Not only is going after a married man disgusting, he's your husband's brother! Are you that selfish to potientially mess up your husband's relationship with his brother for a romp? If you are, you need to realize the world doesn't revolve around you. If you want a divorce, get a divorce. There's no need to ruin people's lives because you're hot for some dude. You don't even know if the dude is into you. The funny thing is, if you do hook up with him, he will cheat on you. If he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you. Remember, what goes around comes around. I highly doubt you'd like your husband hooking up with one of your family members or anyone else for that matter. Be an adult and get a divorce if you want to sleep around. Spare your husband the pain & possible STDs you'd bring home to him.
2007-02-21 18:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its an awful idea, the grass is always greener on the other side. Who's to say that you won't hook up with your brother in law and then after putting your children and family through you being viewed as a whore, it ends up not working out.
Think it through, think beyond your simple lust, think about the people you love and who will be hurt by your actions. Often when we do that, our own selfish desires pale in comparison. There is no way to justify breaking your marriage vows or his.
Further, when your husband divorces you he could come to a lawyer like me to make sure that all that success you say youve made of yourself goes to him and the kids in alimony
2007-02-21 18:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by LawyerBarbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only guy or woman who needs to open her eyes is you. Why in the international did you get married? you haven't got any privateness, no domicile of your individual, no appreciate from his relatives, no being concerned on his section in direction of you. looks the only reason you're mutually is for intercourse, no longer the rest. you will under no circumstances convince him to depart his convenience, guard, lease unfastened place on a similar time as nevertheless have secure, unfastened intercourse. might you in case you have been in his footwear? you need to truly be very youthful whilst a guy or woman can threaten you to hit you, human beings say that just to toddlers. start up by potential of becoming up, provide up being the maid for a roof, get a job and depart.
2016-10-16 05:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really a piece of work aren't you? Your mother-in-law was right not to like you. Your brother-in-law (if he likes you at all) just likes the money you MIGHT have. If that's true then, go ahead, go after him. You two deserve each other. Give your husband a break.
2007-02-21 18:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Why would you commit adultery. You are a married woman. Don't do it. It is wrong on so many levels. Also, the man you want to "make a move on" is not available. Stay away from him. You would be ruining 2 marriages- yours and his.
2007-02-21 18:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by just breathing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of stories going on about the brothers of husbands.Not all of them are happy.Do you know what are you thinking of???They are family,one blood.What feeling it would create between both of them and what about their mother,you aren't her favorite one already.Do you think the brother will abandon his family for you?And than what?You go to live in a far away place,rejected by all,just being together? happy end...Think very well,physical feelings like to obscure a good judgment.
2007-02-21 18:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by vero m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to your husband. Why did you recite the marriage vows if you didn't intend to keep them? I can't imagine you would want to hear the words you are saying/asking right now coming out of your husbands mouth.
2007-02-21 18:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
great thing to do if you wanna lose half of what you own...and for someone that is blowing smoke up there own asss and telling everyone how good and smart you are I my dear think you are a phucking idiot and a shrewd heartless Biotch....
ohh and no offense though hope you have a great day .....
2007-02-21 18:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Iam_canadian 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah your husband clearly doesnt respect you and takes you for granted! One day when you can turn up in a really slutty outfit to your brother in laws house and F**K THE S**T OUT OF HIM!!!
2007-02-21 18:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋