Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

you would like to go back in time to when you were happiest and erase all the years between, and why would you like to go back and what was so different.

2007-02-17 10:15:48 · 12 answers · asked by Welsh girl. 2 in Friends

Why do men who know you hit on you knowing you are unavailable?

In the past 2 months, 2 men asked me for oral sex. One was a coworker and one was a friend in a band.

Both men knew I was married and knew my husband. I’m very faithful and don’t believe in cheating. It always happens when I go out with my girlfriends and my husband is not there. When I do go out I like to do my hair and makeup and I always ware genes with tank top, and I always cover my self up with something. ( shirt/jacket over top ect.) No mid-drift or over exposure or like that. (I‘m only a B cup… Not like I‘m falling out of my top.)

Any insight as to why men are hitting on me. Also the men that have asked me for this sort of thing are involved and have children with there live in girlfriends.

Lastly, I do hang at local bars to hear bands play and this never happens to my single friends? This is the part that bugs me.

2007-02-17 10:15:41 · 0 answers · asked by Eyerish 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Whats are best things u do in ur daily life routine?

2007-02-17 10:15:00 · 7 answers · asked by Vivek K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do men who know you hit on you knowing you are unavailable?

In the past 2 months, 2 men asked me for oral sex. One was a coworker and one was a friend in a band.

Both men knew I was married and knew my husband. I’m very faithful and don’t believe in cheating. It always happens when I go out with my girlfriends and my husband is not there. When I do go out I like to do my hair and makeup and I always ware genes with tank top, and I always cover my self up with something. ( shirt/jacket over top ect.) No mid-drift or over exposure or like that. (I‘m only a B cup… Not like I‘m falling out of my top.)

Any insight as to why men are hitting on me. Also the men that have asked me for this sort of thing are involved and have children with there live in girlfriends.

Lastly, I do hang at local bars to hear bands play and this never happens to my single friends? This is the part that bugs me.

2007-02-17 10:14:17 · 1 answers · asked by Eyerish 5 in Singles & Dating

do some of them think.???..Maybe she will like me more than a friend......because you do not want anything to do with them...and that is a polite way of saying...NO>>>>i am not interested...What percentage of guys think the girl may be still interested when she is NOT???? just percentages please!!! and thanks!!!

2007-02-17 10:13:56 · 2 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so i met this rich guy who amde the move first on me. we have known each other for 2mnths now. he insists that he has to but me things expensive things and i refuse it cause i know hell end up wanting sex in return. He gets annoyed when i dont accept his gifts... i mean they are a bit extreme cruise trips , jewelry and ive only known him 2mnths. i told him that the next time he offers ill accept. Valentines day he wanted to carry me on a shopping spree i never went! nevertheless he stopped calling me since is it that i am being disrespectful by not acceptin the gifts and he feels bad? or is it he wanted to butter me up for a bootycall and realise im not giving in so he gave up while he's ahead? or he really likes me?

2007-02-17 10:13:47 · 13 answers · asked by hershey's kisses 2 in Singles & Dating

nighclub

work

gym

internet

other

2007-02-17 10:12:17 · 42 answers · asked by . 6 in Singles & Dating

This girl and I are living in a city that is not our own and we do a lot of things together.(We don't know many locals) Tonight, after doing her "thing" all day, she suddenly felt strange and wanted to go home, even though she knew how much I wanted to do something.
I'm seriously annoyed and am ready to tell her where to go for hersel. Any female opinions would be appreciated.

2007-02-17 10:11:54 · 7 answers · asked by ? 7 in Friends

2007-02-17 10:11:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i did a few times at parties but was i just lucky or what .

2007-02-17 10:11:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 25 years old. I got pregnant when I was 19. My son is 4 1/2 now. I have dated several men since he has been born. No relationships have worked out. I am beginning to wonder if I will ever get married. I have not been on a date now for almost 2 months. The sad thing is, although I want to date someone, I am so focused on everything else in my life, I don't seem to have time to date. Also, I have gained about 20 lbs over the last couple of years. I don't feel as attractive anymore. I have tried to lose weight, but it just keeps coming back. Will I ever get married? It seems hopeless. I am beginning to accept the fact that I may just be single for the rest of my life.

2007-02-17 10:09:39 · 4 answers · asked by mpk33 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 10:09:13 · 11 answers · asked by Proud Momma 6 in Weddings

Too little = rushing things
Too much = Might actually b a turnoff / Delay things
what do you prefer?

2007-02-17 10:08:00 · 5 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Singles & Dating

stinks like rotten eggs. It's not just a brush and floss thing, it's his teeth i think. How to break it gently?

2007-02-17 10:05:40 · 5 answers · asked by miss_shredder 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was 16 years old I dated a guy who's little brother was sleeping with his 8th grade teacher. No joke. We actually went to her house a few times. At 16 I knew it was wrong and it was weird to see them kissing or holding hands.

I think I am traumatized at the time my boyfriend and I had to pick his brother up from her house on a Saturday morning. I knocked on the door and she answered. It was me who had to go upstairs and get that kid, in his underwear, out of her bed. He was tired and it took some nagging while his teacher stood there in a robe.

Now, as an adult I look back on it and kick myself. Why did I not say something? Was I afraid to make my boyfriend mad? What about when we broke up months later? I could have said something then? Mabye I did not know what to do.

Why was I such a stupid teenager? I am 29 now and it makes me so mad to think about. And to think that she had no problem with us knowing!

What would have you done at 16? Can I forgive myself now as an adult?

2007-02-17 10:05:34 · 14 answers · asked by Triplescoop 2 in Weddings

To be more specific... lets say you are dating somone and you break up because they consider you "just a friend." This is probably because they were "too nice" making it seem like a confidence issue. Once that person has that peception of you as being "a really good friend" is there something you can do to show more confidence and maybe show the girl you are "quite a catch" and that seh made a mistake. Or is it too late?

2007-02-17 10:03:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is the best brother a girl could wish for, he is protective, funny, witty and is fantastic company. For the past 10 years my sister in law has been snippy with her comments, bitchy really to be honest and she gets little digs in when she can and some have been very hurtful but me being me, I have always let it slide! Recently my husband and I bought two new cars, nice ones. We've lived within our means for many a year, we honestly, struggled a bit and now we can afford to really splash out, so we did! She never said anything directly to me but I said to my nephew when he was staying over, 'does your mum like my new car?' and he began to laugh - I asked him what he was laughing at and he wouldn't say - all I got out of him was that she was discussing it with her best mate and they said they felt sorry for me as I had to compensate for my husband working away from home with a sports car!

2007-02-17 10:02:39 · 9 answers · asked by DikiDoo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay i am 24 yrs old and have been married year and half.Before my husband i had severe relationship phobia it started with my first bf senior year.He became my first everything from kiss to well you know and he was experienced so he pretty much could talk me into anything.He got me pregnant then left me came back and left me again i was extremley depressed trying hard to hide it.I lost the baby at 5 months and things got worse.When i started college i through myself into school started making new friends and put that behind me so i thought.Virtually every relationship i had after with a bf's i ended before i got close emotionally .After about 5 yrs of this i made the decision to stop doing this because it was unhealthy and started seeing my husband of 1.5 yrs.When he brought up baby talk all the ignored problems came back?

2007-02-17 10:01:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've dated this guy off and on a little bit. He's been so nice to me and we never fought. But both of us were so busy with sports and we went to different schools so it was hard for us to talk/see each other. So when we broke up, I wasn't too suprised, but I was really hurt and missed him so much. We got back together a few times, but they didn't last long. We stopped talking for a while, but now we are talking about every day. He was my first kiss, which means a lot to me, and even though we're young, we really liked each other. I don't know what to do!

2007-02-17 10:00:06 · 14 answers · asked by hookerlovesyou 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 09:59:12 · 2 answers · asked by mee 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm an indian guy 17 years old. I am born in canada so I do not speak my mother tongue and have no accent or anything.
my parents want me to be more connected to my heritage.
I couldn't give a **** about my heritage.
They want me to go on to college and go into medical college and marry some orphan indian girl just so they don't have to deal with the brides parents ya dig?

I want to get an esl certificate and start teaching in china and find a nice chinese girl and then possibly stay there and never see my parents again.

I lived my life and so far I hate most of the indian girls I've met and all the chinese girls I met I felt like I was in love with every single one because they were all so nice to me and stuff. I don't
like american born chinese.

so should I?
listen to my parents and go to medical college and marry some indian woman and be miserable

or

find a chinese girl and maybe get another job if I can marry her
and live a happy life but never ever see my parents again.

2007-02-17 09:58:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

About a year ago, I had a relationship with a young man who seemed nice at first- but then as things went further, I found out that he was not only extremely controlling, but also very jealous and very possessive even though I didn't flirt with other nor men nor cheat on him. There were times when he would threaten to leave me when I wouldn't sleep with him. He wasn't pleased about the fact that I loved dressing up (he never had to pay for anything, I buy my own clothing and pay for my own beauty products) and always wanted me to dress very casually and not even fix my hair (I am NOT kidding!) whenever he wanted to see me. There were times when he would call me, moaning and nearly crying when the subject of me leaving him would come up. He even cheated on me. I have dated some men after that (just casually) and this man and I are already broken up, but I still feel this sense of pain, brokenness, and a much lower sense of self-esteem.

2007-02-17 09:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 09:58:14 · 8 answers · asked by James 6 in Singles & Dating

this girl i've been dating and told her already i liked and she actin somehow weird but i can tell she likes me back
so says she goin be moving and she's like, "i think we r not made for each other, the day i found out i can't look in your eyes more than 1min. ""
what did she mean by that?

2007-02-17 09:57:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 09:57:13 · 12 answers · asked by luis 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 09:56:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but children were involed,who should pick up the tab for the children,the state,or you who destroyed the marrige,yes it takes two to tango, just a question.

2007-02-17 09:55:49 · 15 answers · asked by BD M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 09:54:40 · 13 answers · asked by Gemmy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I like my housemate, but he is only into very hot/cute girls and I don't think I meet his expectations. Also, he believes that I only see him as a friend. What should I do? Should I give up?

2007-02-17 09:54:34 · 2 answers · asked by eternity 2 in Friends

my crush is very outgoing and talks to almost everyone. he flirts with me, but flirts with her and her and her as well. now my question is what do i do? how do i know if he likes me? he also stares at me a lot. and talks really loud to get my attention.

2007-02-17 09:54:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating