This girl and I are living in a city that is not our own and we do a lot of things together.(We don't know many locals) Tonight, after doing her "thing" all day, she suddenly felt strange and wanted to go home, even though she knew how much I wanted to do something.
I'm seriously annoyed and am ready to tell her where to go for hersel. Any female opinions would be appreciated.
2007-02-17 10:11:54 · 7 answers · asked by ? 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think she may like you. and she's scared that she likes you because you're going to have to go home and she doesn't want to get too close to have to lose you. i think you should talk to her about it.
2007-02-17 10:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by rainyday<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key ingredient in any relationship.
Try to choose a time when you both can easily relax and talk, without any distracting factors such as the TV on.
Try talking to her after you've both eaten as you will feel more relaxed.
I suggest rather than telling her that her actions annoyed you, explain to her that you felt disappointed that you were unable to do one of the things you had planned for that day.
She will then be able to tune into your feeling of disappointment.
This method works really well, as people are able to identify with emotion that they themselves can relate to.
Suggest as a compromise something that you both enjoy doing, and relate to a previous experience where you were able to share this enjoyment together.
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-17 18:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she might be having feelings for you. I could be wrong though, she could have really felt strange and wanted to just stay in. (It might be that time of the month...) I would talk to her about it nicely, tell her you're a little frustrated and confused. She might open up and let you know what's going on. Good luck!
2007-02-17 18:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are two strangers in a city, do not cut her out of your life, confront her about what is making you unhappy, she perhaps felt ill after being out all day. Tell her you thought she acted very selfishly and that she upset you, then see what her reaction is. Failing that look for some other mates so all your eggs are not in one basket. Good luck.
2007-02-17 18:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say tell her how it made you feel. Try and keep calm about it. Is it a friendship you want to keep? More ruthlessly, is it one that you need? Maybe your need for each other has come to an end.
2007-02-17 18:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by wonder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is the first time let it pass and if she does it again tell her how you feel, sometimes we just need a little nudge when we forget ourselves
2007-02-18 12:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz tell what you do!
2007-02-18 01:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by Katja ie tattybow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋