I am 25 years old. I got pregnant when I was 19. My son is 4 1/2 now. I have dated several men since he has been born. No relationships have worked out. I am beginning to wonder if I will ever get married. I have not been on a date now for almost 2 months. The sad thing is, although I want to date someone, I am so focused on everything else in my life, I don't seem to have time to date. Also, I have gained about 20 lbs over the last couple of years. I don't feel as attractive anymore. I have tried to lose weight, but it just keeps coming back. Will I ever get married? It seems hopeless. I am beginning to accept the fact that I may just be single for the rest of my life.
2007-02-17 10:09:39 · 4 answers · asked by mpk33 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your only 25. Do not get discouraged with this situation. I am living proof that it can happen. You sound like a smart woman since you are not letting this consume you..some women will put aside everything else from children to job to find "Mr Right" and end up with "Mr. Wrong". Continue to live your life and raise your son. Do not worry about the weight unless it is something you want to change for you and not to find a man. You will find your guy when you least expect it!
2007-02-17 10:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have too many things in your life going on to bother with dating, then don't bother at all. You'll only be distracted from what's really important, those being your job, your friends, and your child. You've made it this far without a man and you can continue to do so.
2007-02-17 19:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not have found the right person yet. You never know you may find that right person when you are in you 30's. Most men get scared off when a women has a kid. Just hang in there.
2007-02-17 18:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, you probaly will never get married...
it is better to be sigle and have guy friends with benefits, than being with the same old boring husband for the rest of your life....
2007-02-17 18:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋