Why do men who know you hit on you knowing you are unavailable?

Question

Why do men who know you hit on you knowing you are unavailable?

In the past 2 months, 2 men asked me for oral sex. One was a coworker and one was a friend in a band.

Both men knew I was married and knew my husband. I’m very faithful and don’t believe in cheating. It always happens when I go out with my girlfriends and my husband is not there. When I do go out I like to do my hair and makeup and I always ware genes with tank top, and I always cover my self up with something. ( shirt/jacket over top ect.) No mid-drift or over exposure or like that. (I‘m only a B cup… Not like I‘m falling out of my top.)

Any insight as to why men are hitting on me. Also the men that have asked me for this sort of thing are involved and have children with there live in girlfriends.

Lastly, I do hang at local bars to hear bands play and this never happens to my single friends? This is the part that bugs me.

Answer 1

Sometimes guys (and even girls too sometimes) think with the lower half of their bodies, haha. It's crazy how guys always come out of the woodwork when you get into a relationship isn't it. I don't think they all do it on purpose though. I kind of think it's a subconscious jealousy/thrill of the chase/extra challenge/"Oh man I waited too long and now I'm really going to lose her!" thing that makes it happen. Also, I think a lot of girls get more happy and confident with themselves when they get into a good relationship and this also attracts men.