I've dated this guy off and on a little bit. He's been so nice to me and we never fought. But both of us were so busy with sports and we went to different schools so it was hard for us to talk/see each other. So when we broke up, I wasn't too suprised, but I was really hurt and missed him so much. We got back together a few times, but they didn't last long. We stopped talking for a while, but now we are talking about every day. He was my first kiss, which means a lot to me, and even though we're young, we really liked each other. I don't know what to do!
2007-02-17 10:00:06 · 14 answers · asked by hookerlovesyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
doesnt sound like you have any reason not to be with him. give it a try!
2007-02-17 10:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that society makes people think that to date you need to be together all the time. As long as you guys like each other, let it continue. Because of the situation, it'll make the relationship take a slower road. In my experience, building a strong relationship over time is a wonderful foundation for a long term relationship. Good luck to you.
2007-02-17 10:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you should be with him. It sounds like you should but it seems that your lives are too busy for each other. If you try to fit time into each of your schedules for each other then it could work.
2007-02-17 10:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be toether with him he is your first love and first kiss i know the distance is really hard for you and him.
well here do this call him one day and ask him what is his schedule
and look at both of your guys schedule together and plan to meet eachother again. Do what your heart tells you.
2007-02-17 10:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never forget your first love they're special. It could very well be that you miss your friendship with him since you're both into sports --- I'd quit trying to analyze it and just enjoy his friendship and see what happens
2007-02-17 10:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with having friends. Just thank God for putting this guy in your life and for the gift of his friendship. Keep in touch with him and see whay happens. You both have plenty of time.
2007-02-17 10:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by catholicgirl55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys should get back together....but take it slow this time. And if it was meant to be then that will show in the long run.
2007-02-17 10:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try thinking of him as a friend. Like a best friend. You are always going to remember him and maybe it really is time to move on.
2007-02-17 10:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by butterflywndr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is too personal for me to answer. All I can tell you is go with what your true feelings tell you. Take your time to think about it and the answer will come soon enough.
2007-02-17 10:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of your lives have eased up a bit and there's room in your lives now.....give it a try. You both maybe ready for a committment now.
2007-02-17 10:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't work the past few times it probably won't work now either so your probably better off being friends. GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-17 10:04:54 · answer #11 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋