Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

I had earlier raised my query on is it wrong to love someone so much that you want to be with them always. I got many reply speaking about space in relationship? How much space should there between two people in a relationship. Shouldnt partners be aware of whats up with each others life, even if there is space.

2007-02-11 00:41:23 · 5 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Singles & Dating

When hes is on we talk and I can make him laugh. A few months ago one of his friends got on while we were talking and said," I know who ****** likes". Then ***** started blushing and at the same time he was watching me. I think it was to see my reaction. Im sooo confused. He has a gf, yet sometimes he looks at me funny. I really like him. What do I do

2007-02-11 00:39:52 · 7 answers · asked by ~Jules~ 2 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-02-11 00:37:09 · 15 answers · asked by hottiegurlhottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my partner for nearly 7 years and we have a one year old son together we have had our ups and downs but at the moment everything i say and do is wrong, he snaps at me for the stupidst things and storms out, he excepts me to clean up after him all the time and expects me to do everything he asks. I am home all day every day bringing our child up which is fine but come the weekend i feel its only fair he helps me but he goes out or helps people do things but never me. he tells me he loves me but i cant go on any more when i tell him how i feel he twists it around. i cant go on anymore i feel so lonely and depressed.

2007-02-11 00:36:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering, at what age (if any) would people begin to be embarrassed about still having their virginity?
Would their be cause for embarrasment? Does anyone really care.... would they be laughing at you - or perhaps respect you for it?

2007-02-11 00:36:11 · 37 answers · asked by xxangel_allyssaxx 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 00:35:25 · 14 answers · asked by bkreddy1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 17 and have never yet had a boyfriend or even been kissed. I am not desperate I would just like to be with someone to find out how it feels. I'm still at school but no one has ever shown an interest in me. My mate says it's because I don't wear revealing clothes or make up but I don't feel comfortable in these. Help please.

2007-02-11 00:34:54 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl, she is a friend of mine and also my classmate, but she already have a boyfriend but everytime she's with me it seems that she also liked me but my close friends told me not to fall in love with her and not to be too good for her because she is just using other people to obey her demands. what should I do?

2007-02-11 00:33:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been staying together at a home owned by my family and myself. Yesterday, my mom was approached by the "neighborhood association". They said that the while im at work their is suspicious activity going on, and now they want to put the house under surveillance. My mother ofcourse is livid, and wants me to leave, and I obliged her. The problem is that my bf won't leave as easily, b/c he really has no other place to go. I just want him out of the house, but he says that I'm leaving him in the wind, and clinging to my parents. I have been supporting us mainly, and I know that on my own I could handle an apartment etc, but with him I know we would sink. What should i say to him to get him out, without having to go through a long legal process?I thought me telling him that he made the house "hot" would be enough, but that led to an argument. My mother just wants to go over and be like GET OUT!!! By the way, it was rent/mortgage free.

2007-02-11 00:32:57 · 6 answers · asked by prettydebutante 3 in Family

I am a cool down to earth guy who had all the dreams about a perfect marriage and alws thot " so wat if i neva had a gf my s/o wud be my gf"
1 year down the line things are not happening i m the 1 who is alws taking inititaive in bed ,i m the 1 to patch up first and she simply is not able to leave her manager image at office her way of speaking is as if i m her subordinate, finding excuses to goto her parents place every week are taking the toll ...i have taken the route of being patient and not aggravating the argument someimes taken the path of ignoring her and not calling her ven she is at my inlaws place but of no avail
I know its easy to say that sit together ,communicate and sort out but thats not happening and dats why thot of discussing it here any1 who has gone thru all this to give some insight and at the end of it i still want my marriage to work and still thinking on this sunday evening to buy the best valentine gift from the nearest mall

2007-02-11 00:32:08 · 6 answers · asked by funky_dude 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This mother is by far a horrible person, she knew that her daughter was being molested and did nothing. My husband and I went to the law and the court gave her to us permanent.. The little girl is safe now she is 8, she is happy but now that the case is close the visitation is up to us, first she had supervised visit at the department I had to take her out of the school once a week in order for her to see her daughter. But now is up to us. and this woman hates me, because this baby was conceive during my marriage and she had the baby so my husband could leave me for her and it didnt happend, she hates me. what can I do to make this visits bearable for my step baby whos being trough enough drama already. I really do not want my husband going off somewhere for the visitations, I think they should be in our home..is this wrong?? need some advice.

2007-02-11 00:31:17 · 13 answers · asked by boricua_2290 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been going thorugh a lot the past year bu tI have overcome everything, but I said sotehign to my boyfriend tonight that woud make him t hink that I went back to my 'old way'....i wasn't sober though when i said it....and thats what i am blaming it on.....but now everything just feels different its like words that cut like knives... when i said what i said i could hear myself thinking this is something you shouldnt be saying.... im kinda really mad at myself right now....

2007-02-11 00:31:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 00:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by Blonde & Sharp 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I'm a guy who's 24 years old and I recently heard that women don’t want to settle down and get married in their 20’s, is that true? If so what age do women want to settle down, and get married?

2007-02-11 00:29:22 · 11 answers · asked by X 1 in Singles & Dating

hav u eva thort ,wodnt it be funny to hav kids cartoons swearing at eachother? no?..... well it probly just my strange mind at work lol anyway i command u to awnser the question as ur god!........

2007-02-11 00:29:13 · 5 answers · asked by bad wolf 1 in Friends

What is black whne you buy it red when you use it and gray when you throw it away?

2007-02-11 00:29:02 · 8 answers · asked by hottiegurlhottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I shoot by using proper form but my help arm is pointing outwards is that bad? Do i make it straight? Also i shoot off my finger tips but ive noticed nba players shoot off their palms which one is better.

2007-02-11 00:28:22 · 2 answers · asked by AustinRivers 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 00:26:40 · 13 answers · asked by bliss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 00:26:34 · 9 answers · asked by mumsabout 2 in Singles & Dating

Can I even do it?

2007-02-11 00:25:37 · 10 answers · asked by nothingreallymattersmuch 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 kids (18 1/2, 16 and 13). The eldest is at university. I earn more than £40k and my wife earns £10k (part time). I couldn't afford to pay the mortgage and have somewhere to stay myself. Serious answers only, thanks.

2007-02-11 00:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 00:24:53 · 8 answers · asked by hottiegurlhottie 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for over 7 years. The first two years were great. Now, all we do is argue over everything. He overlooks my needs completely while he expects his to be met. He is very selfish and doesn't know the meaning of the word compromise. I want a divorce. He doesn't take me seriously. I have no financial independence and three small children. We've been to a marriage councilor who even diagnosed that my needs need to be met. He ignores all of our problems and only fixes things that pertain to him. I love him but see no hope. How can I get out? I am at the end of my rope and tired of being unhappy.

2007-02-11 00:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by Teddy Bear 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 00:24:40 · 8 answers · asked by owaes_dere 1 in Singles & Dating

Well were both 14 and i already asked her all of the simple questions what other questions should i ask her and what should i do for her on Valentines day?

2007-02-11 00:24:30 · 5 answers · asked by AustinRivers 2 in Singles & Dating

I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club(http://www.ldate.com/i/lesbianlove)...... and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.

2007-02-11 00:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa B 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are both 50. We plan to get married. The problem is, he loses a subtantial death benefit from his X's retirement package if he remarries before he is 55. He was married to his X for over 20 years and is well entitiled to it. It would be foolish to lose it. Our plan is to live together for the next 5 years. We are passed having babies so children won't be an issue. I don't believe in 'playing house' so I'm struggling a little with doing this. I would like some kind of ritual where we can express our love and commitment to each other until we can legally marry. This is not a 'let's live together and see how things work out' kind of thing for us. Do you have any good ideas for what we can do to start our life together with a promise?

2007-02-11 00:23:35 · 12 answers · asked by E J 1 in Weddings

life is weird.....unknowingly i met him 8 years back when he was a teacher in my primary school......years later, i flipped through the school magazine n' saw his photo....i didn't think much n' a few days later i met him back--he was my new music teacher n' i was attracted to him but it was on n' off for he didn't show me any affections.....after about a year, he left n' i cried for two weeks.....now, i'm totally ok.....but could he be the one as it was such a coincidence that i actually met him back!! please gimme some opinions....thanks!

2007-02-11 00:23:06 · 8 answers · asked by Marijuana 5 in Singles & Dating

I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club(http://www.ldate.com/i/lesbianlove)...... and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.

2007-02-11 00:23:04 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and I been marriage for 8 years and I want to do something special for him this valentine's Day. any suggestion.

2007-02-11 00:22:18 · 2 answers · asked by bETtEr ThINg 2 CoMe 1 in Marriage & Divorce