2007-02-11 00:26:40 · 13 answers · asked by bliss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have this friend, having a relationship in a married man, he still have his family but away from him, they've known only at work and they've probably created love without knowing that the guy still have his family. i wanted to help my friend and ofcourse not to let my friend broke the marriage of the man coz i know he's really not the type of my friend ,just because the guy is wealthy. but then i found out, the guy now wanted to leave his family because of my friend. the question is, can i have the chance to help her? and how?
2007-02-11 00:45:46 · update #1
I would like to think that love is so special that it is enough but it isn't. You need to have a family of your own and a life so the sooner you do not have this problem the better for your future. Difficult as it will be take the lonely road the sooner the better. Make drastic changes in your life study for a change of career, seriously take on fitness, possibly a new hobby, a new address, a new pet only you know how to keep so busy that the pain dissipates if only a little and the future will become rosier......so good luck and go to it make the changes so that you can eventually be happier and have something of you own if only your own life and no waiting for someone who can't or won't organise their own.........
2007-02-11 00:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by njss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you can only try and persuade your friend. But, in such cases, where emtion takes over, there's not much you can do. The damage has already been done. But, you can try nonetheless.
Relationships with married men are NEVER a good thing. It tears apart the whole family. You can only convince her of this; but she won't listen.
Leave it in the lap of the gods. But try to convince her to completely break of her relationship, eventhough she 'loves' this man. It is not good to love a married man.
Good luck, for you and your friend and the married guy and everyone involved!
2007-02-11 00:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this man really does not love your firend!!! He is using her for a booty call and some easy sex. He does not even love his family or wife for that matter. She needs to get away from this guy now and dump him and do not look back. She is also using the guy for his money and wealth. This situation is really bad and should not be happening at all. Tell her to get out now and to move on with her life.
2007-02-11 00:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 03:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has in a married man? No he cant love you. He is using you. If he loved you then he would take the steps to remove himself from his family and leave them in a position of safety before his happiness... that's just me mind you... but then I don't touch married men.. How can YOU love a man who would do that to the family he claims to love. and don't forget the wife.... he is doing this to her he will do it to you too.... once a cheater always a cheater
2007-02-11 00:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not possible. Anyone (man or woman) who has a family and cheats, has no concept of what love is. Plus, if (and that is a HUGE if) they would ever leave their family for you, how could you ever trust them, knowing that they are capable of cheating?
Long Live Jambi
2007-02-11 00:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont get this question. Is he cheating on his wife? Or are you talking about his mom, dad family? If he is cheating no, he is in it for the sex. If it is the other family he probably love you as a girlfriend. This question is unclear.
2007-02-11 00:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No lady that guy is just telling you what you want to hear so that he can insert his member in to your lady parts.
Oh, and I almost forgot, you are a sexually liberated woman now days so its OK if you're living for c0ck regardless of the consequences. There is nothing wrong with that according to the women on this forum.
2007-02-11 00:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by Billy Bob D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not enough details.
Is the man still married and living with his wife and children? If so, he is saying he loves you for the free sex.
If he is divorced, then it is possible for him to love you like he says he does.
If he is married, then you do not need to be with him regardless of what he is telling you.
2007-02-11 00:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave this friend of yours. After all, she is part of the affair and I would not even bothered to be around or help her. Her happiness or unhappiness depends on her actions and not yours.
2007-02-11 01:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋