I really like this girl, she is a friend of mine and also my classmate, but she already have a boyfriend but everytime she's with me it seems that she also liked me but my close friends told me not to fall in love with her and not to be too good for her because she is just using other people to obey her demands. what should I do?
2007-02-11 00:33:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She may be using you or she may be interested in you. No one else can tell you that for sure. However, the fact that she has a boyfriend already means that she is not available for a relationship. Take an objective look at the situation and trust your own judgment.If she is only ever nice to you when she wants something, then she is using you. If she is always kind and talkative, then she probably isn't. However, you can not overlook the possibility that she just wants a friend. Whatever you do, don't let your friends run your life for you. They may have your best interests in mind and still be wrong. Good luck to you.
2007-02-11 00:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this girl then you should tell her the truth no matter if she has a boyfriend are not. But make sure if she tells you that she like you to that she ain't going to try date both of yall at the same time and also don't ever listen to your friends about who you want to be with cause your friend wouldn't listen to you if they were in your place. But don't let her run all over you, make sure that she doesn't exspect you do drag to her every command. yeah it's nice to do things for her but don't let her think that she can just sit around and do nothing it has to be 50/50 thing you here. well good luck
2007-02-11 01:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all when it comes to matters of the heart, do not listen to your friends. Sometimes they tell you extreme things because they don't want you to get hurt. You have to do what you think is right. However, if this girl has a boyfriend....you should probably find someone else! Unless she has actually told you that she likes you and she's going to dump her boyfriend for you, you should forget about her and move on.
2007-02-11 00:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...any girl's presence & behaviour is designed in such a way that it really pleases us..if u feel she's someone's girl forget her man...cos the world is never void of beautiful girls....or if u feel she's the one..then go ahead..try ur best..true love always wins....all the best....
if u still cant arrive at a decision after reading this, give me more details of this problem....ill help u...
LOVE IS THE EASIEST & THE MOST COMPLICATED THING ON EARTH......................................................
2007-02-11 00:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by mr.hitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may only seem that she likes you as in likes you, but what if she just likes you period. Clearly if she has a boyfriend she should have enough sense to stick with him
2007-02-11 00:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Spawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say it really sounds like she is using you, personally i wouldnt go there even if you like her, not worth it.
2007-02-11 00:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by DJ T-RAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be clear with her,ask her, after asking her, you will feel better, because you will know whats going on exactly, so you can decide.......
2007-02-11 00:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by Rami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your self and study the girl and your friend also
2007-02-11 00:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be good with her but very careful
2007-02-11 00:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by mtm640 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur friends r telling right.....
2007-02-11 00:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by kapoor's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋