relax babe you have plenty of time when you do kiss first tim will be great you are young enjoy it till the right mate comes along
if you want to chat email me
2007-02-11 00:37:50
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answered by john t 4
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Don't ever let someone tell you that you have to wear revealing clothes or a lot of makeup to attract a man. That's not true at all. That just makes you look easy. I know it must be hard when it feels like everyone else is in relationships but yourself. Just give yourself some time. It will make it all the more special when you meet the right guy. And just think he is out there right now looking for you. You won't know where or when but that's what makes life interesting.
2007-02-11 00:42:06
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answered by navy wife 1996 3
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Stay calm I'm 17 to and I didn't had a girlfriend, just short crushes. I was worried too but then I released that now the best partner comes at the best time so just be yourself, it's not a shame that you have not a boyfriend. Besides we are still too young to have a relationship and we are too busy to make something of us. Don't listen to your mate, she/he doesn't know whats the best. In time you will that the best way is to go ahead and show to everybody that you are the best say "Why should I run for a partner if he/she can run after me" show that you are not a person who is falls easy in those flirting tricks. You are independent and you must not scare yourself that you have not a relationship . So don't lose any hope you will find someone you can hug, kiss etc etc just be patience and be stronger.Show us that you are a strong tiger. Stay calm, be acting like this you make things go bad.
2007-02-11 00:48:51
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answered by Soso 3
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There is nothing wrong with you!!
You say no one at school has shown an interest in you.... Have you shown any interest in anyone at school either?
You dont have to sit and wait around for a guy to approach you - if you see a guy you quite like, try asking him out!
Is this peer pressure?? Do you truely feel you need a boyfriend right now, or is it that you simply feel you should just because people you know do/have?
Whats the point in dating anyone just for the sake of it?
There is nothing wrong with waiting until you meet someone you are truely attracted to and really like.
You could perhaps find a couple of hobbies - social things, like ice-skating, or bowling, etc - places to go out to and meet people.... you bump up the chances of meeting that special someone if you go out to places where you could potentially meet them ;)
Seriously though, dont worry. Relax and enjoy being 17....
Ahh, to be young free and single ..... such joys ... (pitty you never see it that way until its too late and you are old and tied down to a fat bloke who sits on the sofa farting all day! lol)
I wish you all the best xoxoxox
2007-02-11 00:46:06
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answered by xxangel_allyssaxx 2
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Hi Joanne
There is nothing wrong with you at all.
Respect to you... you sound very sensible.
you should always be yourself
you are right not to change your personality for the wrong reasons.
Be strong in who you are & what makes you feel comfortable. you will then see what fools your girlfreinds go & make of themselves when they attract the wrong type of boys for the wrong reasons & then get into all sorts of trouble
You will find out soon enough all the problems that go with having a boyfriend, so enjoy being free for now
Of course that also means that you are free to kiss as many boys as you like, (one at at time now) but seriously, don't think of it like you are in a race or anything.
but on the other hand, there is nothing wrong with you showing an interest in someone that you like, & that you might like to practise your kissing with.
I am sure most boys would be only too happy to oblidge you.
If there is no one at school who you fancy a snog with then join a club or do somethng that alows you to meet others of your own age where you might meet someone that you like & who likes you as you are.
Most of all don't think of it as something that you feel you should do just for the sake of it.
mmuah x
2007-02-14 16:57:54
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answered by healer 5
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THIS IS RIDICULOUS! You are STILL SO YOUNG!
Hey lady! Be careful. You WILL be taken advantage of!
Don't ever get the wrong idea you need to wear revealing clothes.You will only ATTRACT THE WRONG ATTENTION. NOT all men look for women who wears revealing clothes.
Don't ever even spend too much time thinking about it. Go back to school. This is more important for you now.
I also think you can find someone eventually.
By the way, stay away from your friend. What sort of friend is that?
2007-02-11 00:39:55
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answered by StandTall 4
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You don't have to wear revealing clothes to attract attention.
If you want a bf just to find out what it feels like then you will be dating for the wrong reasons.
Anyhow, if you want to be attracting attention, you will have to be worthy of gaining that attention.
Ask yourself these questions:
Is your posture right when having conversations with guys? (head high but titlting at a slight angle to the side, stomach in, arms at 90 degrees, look straight)
Do you sound confident? ( slow down the way you speak, guys also like confidence in women)
Do you smile?( hiding your smile behind your hands does not work)
Do you sound cheerful and uplifting? (nobody likes a person who drowns the atmosphere)
If you have long hair, is it all on one side of your neck (it's sexy and sophisticated)
Are you relaxed? (attitude is 'it's great to know you but if you don't care or making things hard, I don't give a [beep]')
Presentation:
I am not sure what your style is but these are tips that may help despite the style
make sure hair is behind the ears (I am not sure whether it is out of style yet but you can use hairbands to make his more revealing)
Your top should be a single colour prefably (keep designs/pictures simple and have only one)
Be modest about makeup (your face is supposed to be admired not covered up; you are also not a clown)
Avoid high heels unless you are going out partying and/or you are wearing a skirt (if you are make sure your shoes matches your outfit including colour and style- when I say this, try to find shoes that are versatile to avoid buying something like 50 pairs)
Be modest on perfume (I reckon you won't smell that bad)
Otherwise keep things simple.
Note:just because something is expensive, it doesn't always means it is good. It's more about what suits you as a person and who you want to be. If you are generally comfortable and confident with yourself, that sometimes is enough to grab any guy's attention.
Things not to do:
Be snotty and arrogant
Too shy and obsessive
Frown and moan about everything
Boss people around
Alcoholic (or addict to any drugs)
Pick on people to get their attention
Not to hide from guys who you take interest in
Lie about who you are as a person (often eing yourself is the best solution to getting guys' attention)
Be/Act immature
I hope this helps, although I don't recommend you doing this just to know what it feels like to be in a relationship.If your feelings is not in a relationship, then there isn't much point to having that relationship and your are hurting your partner in the process anyway. Do it because you want to be in that relationship, that you want to be with that person.
Good luck.
2007-02-11 01:15:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't change a thing we are who we are,and look the way we look thats just how it is.I'm lucky i have a partner of 23yrs and am happy,but i never thought it would be her that i would spend my life with.I had girlfriends before her normally the busty party type ,cleavage showing and made up to the nines.My partner never wore makeup dressed plainly and never made a big deal about who or what she was.One day by accident we ended up walking home together in the pouring rain laughing and joking all the way.No we did'nt end up doing it that night it was several months before we got really intimate.Now 23 yrs on i'm still deeply in love with her and she is still the wonderful what you see is what you get person i first met.So don't worry about it, one day like me love will come to you and it will be worth the wait.GOOD LUCK
2007-02-11 01:09:30
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answered by Tony 3
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You don't need to wear revealing clothes, you just need to be yourself. You could try joining a club, or taking up a hobby that involves you in meeting more people, outside of school. Most guys at school are more immature than the girls of the same age. Thats why you'll often find them chatting up girls 2 or 3 years below them. It's fine to wait til you meet someone you like who also likes you. But you need to be prepared to show them that you like them, guys can be shy too!
2007-02-11 00:41:36
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answered by Anonymous
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nothing wrong with you... and you don't want to be with someone just to "know how it feels"...
It might feel great, but if he's the wrong person it's not worth it.
You don't need to wear revealing clothes to get a person interested in you... but you need to go to the right places and be in the right crowd.
In fact it is my firm belief that revealing clothes decrease your chances of meeting a good person. If you want someone who just wants you for sex and for your body... have at it.
But if you want a genuine person who cares about you, then you need to be yourself, continue to improve yourself and hang out with the right not wrong crowds.
Don't rush love... lots of people end up regretting it.
Oh, and this might be a bit extreme, but I would say you probably need to find a different mate. Anybody who gives you that kind of advice is NOT going to be of help in your quest to find true love.
And remember, love is a choice not a feeling.
2007-02-11 00:42:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Nothing's wrong with you. You just haven't met the right fellow. Don't be in a rush to have a boyfriend just because your friends have one. Take time to make friends who are guys and get to know them before making a decision to be in a relationship. You're only seventeen you have your whole life ahead of you to find the perfect partner. The more experience you have in making friends who are boys the better you will be able to make a decision about picking the right one for you.
2007-02-11 00:41:40
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answered by Rocky 6
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