Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

This girl is 18 and she is visiting here from England. We have been together alot(6 times) since she has been here. We talk and are past getting to know eachother. I like her alot and want to keep talking to her after she leaves. I dont want her to leave and then we just never talk again. I dont have any numbers or addresses and neither does she and I know I need to get that. She smiles alot around me and we have fun together. The only way for you to really understand the situation I would have to tell you the whole story. What is a way I can bring up still talking to her after she leaves while we are together, what could I say? Since we went to New York a few times together I was thinking I could say heres my email address soyou can show me the pictures you took, but I dont know if that will make us continue talking and I dont think that is a very good way to do it. What is a way to bring it up during times we have left together, how do I say I want to still talk to her?

2007-02-11 03:06:18 · 21 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy a lot but i dont want to make a fool of myself or him!!!!

2007-02-11 03:05:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with my Girlfriend coz she wants me to live with her and marry her but the thing is that i'm a married guy and my Wife is so perfect for me and a perfect mother of my children the only thing is that i got involve with the other woman coz at the time My sex life with my wife was not doing well and suddenly i was involve with the other woman , i feel pressure coz the other woman is telling me if i dont go to live with her she will tell my Wife and i dont want my wife to be hurt about this, i told the other woman i want to break up with her and she told me that she is pregnant, now i dont know what to do , i'm so confuse ,i dont know what to do , pls any advise will be great.

2007-02-11 03:05:24 · 11 answers · asked by girly girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After almost 9 years of marriage, I started an emotional affair with another man, a mutual friend of ours. No sex, but pretty emotional. My husband found out and now won't speak to me, took my wedding ring, and says he can't trust anything I say. I don't blame him. What can I do to earn his trust back? I want nothing more than to be a family with him and our 3 kids. I honestly can't even tell him why, other than I liked the attention that I wasn't getting at home. He cheated on me 4 years ago and I forgave him. (not that what I did was justified by this) Now he says he doesn't even know if he wants to stay married to me. I know if there's hope, it takes a long time. What can I do to convince him that he's the only man I want to spend the rest of my life with? I do love him more than anything! Thanks for your help.

2007-02-11 03:04:49 · 12 answers · asked by broken 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you want to break up with your girlfriend, but don't want to hurt her?

Would you be a man and tell her straight up or ..act like a coward and deliberately distant yourself from her, then let her break it off with you?

2007-02-11 03:03:08 · 7 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for some old friends and Lynda is one of them she used to live in Ruislip married John and moved to Essex. I would love to get in touch if your out there.

2007-02-11 03:03:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

with my Girlfriend coz she wants me to live with her and marry her but the thing is that i'm a married guy and my Wife is so perfect for me and a perfect mother of my children the only thing is that i got involve with the other woman coz at the time My sex life with my wife was not doing well and suddenly i was involve with the other woman , i feel pressure coz the other woman is telling me if i dont go to live with her she will tell my Wife and i dont want my wife to be hurt about this, i told the other woman i want to break up with her and she told me that she is pregnant, now i dont know what to do , i'm so confuse , pls any advise will be great.

2007-02-11 03:02:39 · 5 answers · asked by girly girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 03:02:37 · 5 answers · asked by : 6 in Friends

my friend's bday is coming soon... and i dont know what to get him... he like cars (his dream car is lamborghini) and V for vendetta... he actually wants V for vendetta comic books, but there isn't any in Singapore... but the main thing is that i give him a present...

2007-02-11 03:01:21 · 6 answers · asked by xbox 1 in Friends

I'm abt to hit 40 and here lately I just cant enough.

2007-02-11 03:01:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 03:00:56 · 4 answers · asked by : 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife has been given many resentments over the years but one seems to be driving a huge thron in our side. the problem is the family member can't be removed from our life without including me to move with the member. so i'm asking what are some why to eas the conflict between everone?

2007-02-11 03:00:15 · 3 answers · asked by ryanjp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have liked a guy for a long time now and we have become quite good friends but he has been in a 'long-term' relationship for about 18 months now and they have just broken up. How can I comfort him as well as let him know I want him? And how long should I wait? Obviously recovery time is needed?

2007-02-11 02:59:57 · 23 answers · asked by staciejay 1 in Singles & Dating

Thanks for all your answers to my previous question. It's hard to give a comprehensive picture in 1000 characters.

We have had a hard three years because working full time and going to Uni part time and trying to fit it all in with a family is hard.

I do a lot of nice things for my wife and I also help around the house a lot.

I would say I'm a modern man, I dont ask my wife to work but she has to understand that you either have to work hard to get money or stay at home and enjoy the free things.

When we split up I tried hard to win my wife back and it pushed her away but soon after I said that I was going to except that it was over and stop trying to get her back she wanted to work on things.

We have lots of kisses and cuddles during the day but I dont feel like we are connecting (is that just me not connecting?). Whenever I say that i am going to leave it to my wife to be romantic it doesn't happen. Maybe I am expecting too much? Can it work if I feel unfullfilled?

2007-02-11 02:59:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Of course she proposes with a diamond ring, and he accepts the ring. Shouldn't he change is last name or at very least, not expect her to change hers?

Totally hypothetical.

2007-02-11 02:59:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my bf of 1 yr. is now asking for us to have a break...because we both have to study..he says it won't be breaking up just that he has things he has to do...like studying and traveling...so we wont get time to see or talk to each other....
he then adds that "we can pick up right where we left off if we still have feelings"....what am i supposed to understand about this?

we both dont want to lose each other but its sumthing tht we have to do..help me plz...

2007-02-11 02:59:19 · 1 answers · asked by pixie 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel like I'm in high school again. Right now 4 people have crushes on me. One is a dude online I'm friends with. Another is a da-mn fool that took away my virginity, which I didn't know much, and didn't keep in touch with for a month. The other 2 are friends. On of the friends is sweet, but I'm not sure if he's my type. I heard by chance I did hook up with him, it;ll be hard on the next one. The forth is a good friend of mine I had in middle school that got back in touch with. The thing is its a she, and she's a leisbian. She knows I'm straight, and that I'm not changing. She ain't forcing or any of that. No, not that at all. I just don't know what I should thinnk between all of it. What should I think? What would you think?

2007-02-11 02:58:22 · 6 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Friends

These people were really nice and inviting to me for a long time and gave me opportunities to be their friend and I wanted to but I was shy but they always seemed to understand and give me more opportunities. At the last dance they actually invited me to hang out with them but I was really having a bad night with the social anxiety but I still had a good time. But at the dance last night when I went to hang out with them they seemed to move away from me so I just left. Maybe they finally just gave up. I don't fault them and am not angry at them. People who seemed to want to get to know me better before seem to be a lot more distant, cold, and uninterested. And I can't blame them. But do you think this is whats going on?

2007-02-11 02:58:00 · 6 answers · asked by leena 4 in Singles & Dating

Mine is that I told my husband I believed you only had one soul mate, which is what he believes. I actually believe you can have many "soul mates" in a lifetime.

2007-02-11 02:56:58 · 11 answers · asked by VNCGirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We went to school together, and i was in 7th and he was in 8th, he stared at me CONSTENTLY and not because i liked him and i was paranoid this was dead on staring. Then In 8th grade he stayed backand wasin my hmroom. My friend asked "who's the new kid" and i told her, "o u2 friend or dating?" and i said "no why?" and she scared the hell outa me and said "o cuz he's been stair at u since the bellrang for homeroom..."
then he started talking to me, and he'd joke around and take my things, and then he'd randomly joke in class and then look at me when he finished... He even joked around and tried to ge the single back seat on the bus and when i went to go on the bus he grabbed my back and started laughing and tuggin at me... and then he's sat with me before on the single seat.... and he's sat on me, and he's been playful... always has been... and when he's with his friends he'd pass me and smile a bit or just stare... and theres soo much more but i need to know what u ppl think.... plz

2007-02-11 02:56:39 · 6 answers · asked by punk 1 in Singles & Dating

hae i am 25 year old good boy ,planing to get married.i visited few matrimonial sites but nothing helpd me . so how do i find the right one...................

2007-02-11 02:55:36 · 9 answers · asked by suresh r 1 in Weddings

She previously cheated on him, he moved on and out of her life although she thought her wealth would keep him making no excuses for her actions. Every once in a while she emails him to see if they can hook up .He conveys it to me out of disgust and he then writes her back that he is not interested.
I am Christian and although I try not to be non-judgmental on this woman's character, I cannot understand how a woman can degrade herself that way (she is also a mother)
I do not want my fiance to be rude because I seriously pity this woman but I am out of ideas

2007-02-11 02:54:53 · 9 answers · asked by IPnlove 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 02:54:13 · 13 answers · asked by Einstein 7 in Singles & Dating

i know its going t hurt me like hell. its the riht thing to do. how can i be determined enough to go throughwith and after that how can i help myself not regret it or cry etc.

2007-02-11 02:54:12 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm having quite the time adjusting from a drama filled relationship to a healthy one....My jerk ex could have done anything to me and I wouldn't have cared. He could have dressed like anything or acted like anything and i would have thought it was cute/funny cause i was trying to prove to him that i was the girl for him and not the other 50 he was seeing....Now with the good guy if he does the same thing i would look at him differently and feel as though i wouldnt be able to accept flaws in him?

Is there a reason for this? I want to be able to love the nice/hot guy!

2007-02-11 02:53:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i guess im having another day of feeling quite fluffy...enjoy it while it lasts...;0)

2007-02-11 02:53:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any ideas for birthday presents for my sister?! any ideas welcome!
thank you!!

2007-02-11 02:52:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a dancer and i was wondering if it possible if you could "pop your cherry" because of dancing? i was j/w because i've heard things about it.

2007-02-11 02:51:59 · 29 answers · asked by shelbee c 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to propose to my boyfriend of 4 years.

2007-02-11 02:48:59 · 5 answers · asked by Iwalani F 1 in Weddings

hey guys!, i am asking you all this bc you are the guys and i need help with my bf! ok i have dated him for about 6 months now.. we have gone through so much and gottn close to eachother i even gave myself to him! anyways he doesnt seem the type to cheat and theres not really any sighn that i can think of, but at my school i have girls who ( i dont like) always tryn to tell me they heard him talk about some other chick! and the other week i even!! had a guy come up to me who knows whats going on and think that likes me, he told me he seen my bf hug some girl he gave me the girls name and what she lookd like, thin when i told my bf he said he did know her and said she has a bf he did not hug her!! everytime i talk about things like im hearing he gets really upset and trys to tell me that hes not cheating on me and that i shouldnt always listen to other ppl!! so guys, what do you think?

2007-02-11 02:48:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating