with my Girlfriend coz she wants me to live with her and marry her but the thing is that i'm a married guy and my Wife is so perfect for me and a perfect mother of my children the only thing is that i got involve with the other woman coz at the time My sex life with my wife was not doing well and suddenly i was involve with the other woman , i feel pressure coz the other woman is telling me if i dont go to live with her she will tell my Wife and i dont want my wife to be hurt about this, i told the other woman i want to break up with her and she told me that she is pregnant, now i dont know what to do , i'm so confuse , pls any advise will be great.
2007-02-11 03:02:39 · 5 answers · asked by girly girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u know u might as well just tell ur wife, you already screwed up. It's not like u really care about her feelings u just care about getting caught and losing her. U should just leave your wife in peace and live up to your responsibilities.
In the future:try not to cheat it's less stress. Be honest and tell the person you don't want to be with them. hello when your single u can do whatever the hell u want with no worries.
2007-02-11 03:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly you need to make sure this woman IS pregnant or not, if she's using this as a tool to get you to stay with her and leave your wife...which then she will conviently have a 'mis carriage' it wouldn't be good. Buy her a pregnancy test, tlel her to do it and show you the results. I really think you have to tell your wife, she is going to be hurt and angry and probably a little irrantional but you need to tell her, she will end up finding out. I think she will appreciate it more if oyu have the guts to tell her rather than the 'other woman' telling her. Explain to your wife what the other woman is expecting, and that she doens't mean anything, she was only an affair and its your wife that you love. I think you need to talk to both of them but DONT expect your wife to be pleased at all, but I'm sure in time she can forgive you, because your love is strong enough to get through the tough times. You need to find out if she really is pregnant, and then take one step at a time. Don't throw everything away with your wife, but you also have to consider the girlfriend because she obviously cares a lot more for you than what you wanted her to. Good luck
2007-02-11 11:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by unscathed_sheep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a damn mess. Is sex the only thing your interested in? If your wife is perfect for you then why were you out fooling around? If sex was not good with your wife, it is your fault. If she were having a good time in bed, she would love sex. Your doing a lot of things wrong. I suggest that you tell your wife the truth, beg her forgiveness and ask her to go to marriage counseling with you as soon as possible. If the other woman is pregnant with your child, and she decides to have it, then you will be paying child support to her for 21 years. Men like you just make me sick.
2007-02-11 11:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you put yourself in that situation you figure it out--im glad im not your wife
2007-02-11 11:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by amazing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an asshole.
2007-02-11 11:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋