What should I think? What would you think?

Question

I feel like I'm in high school again. Right now 4 people have crushes on me. One is a dude online I'm friends with. Another is a da-mn fool that took away my virginity, which I didn't know much, and didn't keep in touch with for a month. The other 2 are friends. On of the friends is sweet, but I'm not sure if he's my type. I heard by chance I did hook up with him, it;ll be hard on the next one. The forth is a good friend of mine I had in middle school that got back in touch with. The thing is its a she, and she's a leisbian. She knows I'm straight, and that I'm not changing. She ain't forcing or any of that. No, not that at all. I just don't know what I should thinnk between all of it. What should I think? What would you think?

Answer 1

let them have the crushes-unless they are hitting on you to the point you dont like it, i wouldnt worry about it

Answer 2

I think your choices aren't as good as you apparently think.
I don't have much faith in on-line relationships. They aren't totally out of the question, but there is so much room for error in the best of situations, why take any more chances than you have to.

The 2nd you said you don't know much, & you make the relationship sound like it's for sex only, so there you go.

The 3rd you say is sweet, but you seem to dismiss him as not your type. Your sentence structure on your final comment(s) about him made it hard for me to understand exactly what you are trying to say about him, but I think you meant that you had sex with him as well, but I'm not sure.

The fourth is a woman, & you said you are straight so that's a done deal the way I see it. Why did you meantion it unless you are Bi-curious?

Anyway my analysis says that you should pick door number 3.
(Let's Make a Deal?)

You said that you aren't sure that he's your type. But how have all of the guys that you thought were your type worked out so far?
Give him a try, you may find out that he really is your type after all. ;-)

Answer 3

Keep things in their proper perspectives. What ever you do even if she knows your straight she'll keep thinking that she can change the person that you are. This I speak from experience. As far as the others don't dis troy a friendship by becoming lovers unless you know that this is mister right .Trust me your heart will guide you.

Answer 4

i think you should go with the sweet guy who is not your type. maybe he can become your type.

i definetly think you should not date the lesbo. you should not date the fool who took your virginity because hes gonna expect it since he has had it previously. and you shouldnt have a relationship with someone online. that could be dangerous and online dating is for losers.

Answer 5

The collection of people that you claim are not much different that collections other people have. If they are you r friends...then that's what they are.

Answer 6

u musth be hot