Is it finally over?

Question

These people were really nice and inviting to me for a long time and gave me opportunities to be their friend and I wanted to but I was shy but they always seemed to understand and give me more opportunities. At the last dance they actually invited me to hang out with them but I was really having a bad night with the social anxiety but I still had a good time. But at the dance last night when I went to hang out with them they seemed to move away from me so I just left. Maybe they finally just gave up. I don't fault them and am not angry at them. People who seemed to want to get to know me better before seem to be a lot more distant, cold, and uninterested. And I can't blame them. But do you think this is whats going on?

Answer 1

Here are some steps to help you out...1) stop frowning 2)shut off a7x 3) stop saying and thinking that the world hates you 4) BLAME THEMM GET PISSED OFF.. Jesus stop trying to be so understanding and oh i dont blame them because i suck..jesus.

Answer 2

WARNING! Do not click on the first answer. I did a stupid thing one day and saw lots of naughty bits doing naughty things that burned my retina.


BUT, uh, no, it is not over. You are being a little self conscious and a little paranoid about things. Maybe since they were at the dance, they wanted to create a certain picture that was better done standing somewhere else. Even if they did move away from you, and tried to oust you, don't give up or feel bad. You are in control of you and you can will yourself to do or stand where ever and whatever you like. Don't assume the worst. Be brave. Stay strong.Have fun.

Answer 3

(U reap what you sew). u will have to work 2 x as hard to gain something back that u had and lost. Next dance go to them and tell them what a bad or shy or___ person u was and ask them to forgive u as u do really want their friend ship. If they believe u all will be OK (mend your ways). Two very old sayings that are true today as they was years ago I have found out kindness is always paid back 2X. malicious mean behavior is 10X and you will never know what fun u have missed Please try never to be cruel to any one. Always think of other peoples feelings and you will have a full happy life. Good luck YOU can do this.

Answer 4

You might not like this answer, but the reason people learn to avoid you is because you are selfish and self centered. ALL shyness and social anxiety is really self centeredness. Those words are just euphemisms for selfishness.

Wha't going on is this: people are nice to you, and all you can do is think about yourself, how you think, feel, must look like, what you don't feel like doing, etc... Get over yourself. Think of someone else's feelings, for a change.

How? Do what others do for you: be nice, think of someone else for a change, how to let them feel happy, comfortable, have a good time. Be polite to others, for a change.

Start out by talking to one new person a day, being nice to one person for a day, just to be nice, without thinking of what's in it for you.

Answer 5

I think Alot of this is in your head. You cant thrive on one opportunity to make friends because you will always have of chances to do that. If you are scaring them away it is because they sense some kind of desperation. Now imagine that you have all the friends in the world, these guys invite you out. Normally you wouldnt go because your busy schedule wouldnt allow it, but your free tonight. That is the kind of mindset you need to have.

Answer 6

no i dont think that will be over..maybe they just want to enjoy that time. coz they always understand you and they still going to support u what u are and tell them always what u feel if ur shy what ever.