hey guys!, i am asking you all this bc you are the guys and i need help with my bf! ok i have dated him for about 6 months now.. we have gone through so much and gottn close to eachother i even gave myself to him! anyways he doesnt seem the type to cheat and theres not really any sighn that i can think of, but at my school i have girls who ( i dont like) always tryn to tell me they heard him talk about some other chick! and the other week i even!! had a guy come up to me who knows whats going on and think that likes me, he told me he seen my bf hug some girl he gave me the girls name and what she lookd like, thin when i told my bf he said he did know her and said she has a bf he did not hug her!! everytime i talk about things like im hearing he gets really upset and trys to tell me that hes not cheating on me and that i shouldnt always listen to other ppl!! so guys, what do you think?
2007-02-11 02:48:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am nt a guy, but I do know if you continue to question YOUR man he will end up letting go of you. If you care about him and trust him which obviously you do since you gave yourself to him, then believe him when he tells you he's not cheating. The other girls are probably jealous and the guy that told you bout the hug probably wants you for himself. Stop listening to what others say unless you have proof or a deep suspision he is cheating..believe what he says. You said yourself you have no reason to doubt him he hasnt given any signs or clues there maybe someone else in his life so just let it go.
Best of luck to you
2007-02-11 03:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriends always think that their boyfriends arent the kind of guy who woud cheat. If you strongly think that your friends are telling the truth, dump the guy. But you never know, he might be telling the truth about those other girls. He might be hugging them cause they are his friend or something. And that guy who told you that he hugged her probably has a crush on you and wants you to break up with him so he can go out with you. So stick with your boyfriend unless lots of people tell you he's cheating. Good Luck!
2007-02-11 02:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Gator. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should give head to every guy in school. If your boyfriend gets mad then you'll know he really loves you and wouldn't cheat on you. If he doesn't care then at least you've set a school record for giving the most head. PS - don't forget the teachers.
2007-02-11 02:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jim F 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he did not do what the guy told you.. first of all dont beleive in any gossip maybe they r only jealous and want to broke your good relation.if ur bf told you that he did not do 60% believe him or have u ask that girl if she really do hug with ur bf? if she say yes,,then take your bf with u and the girl talk to them if your bf lie u have nothing to lose better know earlier than later.quit with him..
2007-02-11 02:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by lene 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey there has to be fire to cause smoke. but donot panic lay low for a while and see what happens do not give in now itself consider all the facts then make a decision.
I am with you.
2007-02-11 02:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u need to talk to ur bf n this other girl. talk to them seperatly first and then if u can get them together with u there to talk about it. if any of them r uncomfortable being in the same room together wiv u then maybe its time to question wether ur bf is really worth it
2007-02-11 02:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can hope that your boyfriend is telling you the truth and trust him...or not. You could tell the other busybodies that you would rather not hear what may be unfounded rumors.
2007-02-11 02:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is cheating on you let the football team run a train on you that will show him.
2007-02-11 02:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hes cheating on you. yep that's right HES CHEATING on you!!! dupe him now!!!!
2007-02-11 02:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by frank4jesus89 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋