I'm having quite the time adjusting from a drama filled relationship to a healthy one....My jerk ex could have done anything to me and I wouldn't have cared. He could have dressed like anything or acted like anything and i would have thought it was cute/funny cause i was trying to prove to him that i was the girl for him and not the other 50 he was seeing....Now with the good guy if he does the same thing i would look at him differently and feel as though i wouldnt be able to accept flaws in him?
Is there a reason for this? I want to be able to love the nice/hot guy!
2007-02-11 02:53:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your just going off what experience you have seen and know, and using your judgements from that experience, that is just your safety net for you personally, so your heart won't get hurt. And time heals all, you will sort it out as it comes. Just enjoy the new guy and take it slow. Have fun and good luck!
2007-02-11 02:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully...i imagine that you had a hard time pleasing your father or father figure...so you choose to look for men that require more from you to be accepted..."the bad boy" type...of course this is self-destructive...however sometimes it's almost impossible to change...hope you are able to resolve this...
2007-02-11 11:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to heal from the poor past relationship. Remember, these are your issues, not his!
2007-02-11 10:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋