i know its going t hurt me like hell. its the riht thing to do. how can i be determined enough to go throughwith and after that how can i help myself not regret it or cry etc.
2007-02-11 02:54:12 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just do it. It's going to hurt, but so is staying, right? If you're worried about your determination, don't. If you make sure that the break up is hurtful enough for him, it won't even be an issue about whether you can keep your resolve, and stay away. He'll most likely not want anything to do with you, and if he does, you didn't make it hurtful enough. The best way to deal with waffling is to eliminate all the other options.
2007-02-11 03:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always hard to let go of someone that is very close to us but if you said that it is the right hting then I think that you should. I know someone who has gone through this and they lived. Hey we always like the things that are bad for us and we hate choosing the right way at first then you get use to it and find yourself liking it. Its like dieting you hate starting then you start and its okay and you loose those extra pounds.
Look all you have to do to pass time is to hang out with friends that would be interested in what you are interested in. Do fun things and time would pass but just be sure to stay away from him because he could do things that you like seeing that he knows you so well and you guys could be back together. Just remember that feeling pity for someone shouldn't mean that you have to get back with them. Keep him as a friend after some time and if he allows it if he doesn't then to hell with him.
2007-02-11 11:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want it bad enough you will beable to achieve it.You yourself said it is the right thing to do and that is the first step.You have to want better for yourself and yes it is going to hurt but time heal's all wound's you will get through it.Your life will starting coming together and you will be happier in time and as far as crying yes you are going to cry about it that is part of the healing process.The right man for you is out there you will meet him when the time is right.Good Luck & best wishes.
2007-02-11 11:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen breaking up hurts very much but what doesn't kill u makes you stronger. First thing you need to do after you guys break up is totally lose connection with him for a while. Time heals everything. If you see or speak to him after breaking up then you will want to get back with him and second guess your decision. Second thing is keep reminding yourself it's for the better. obviously your not that happy being with him. u deserve better and he will come in time. Think you won't find mr. right if you stick around with him.
2007-02-11 11:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the initial shock it gets easier and easier every day. Time marches on and you get caught up in the rhythm of life, it wont even phase ya.
2007-02-11 11:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what is best there must be reason for your choice and it may be hard after but in time it will be nothing but a memory you have to trust your heart
2007-02-11 10:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have decided that you two are not going to be a couple then, in your mind, the breakup has already occurred. So, just tell him...and get on with life.
2007-02-11 10:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first,you have to be really convinced that u want to break with him,
and after u do it,u have to pass after that,to be strong and not cry...there are more fish in the sea
2007-02-11 11:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by bird fly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its going to hurt u why you want to break up. anyway u know that what u mean if u really think that your not belong for each other than do what u think.. may god bless u
2007-02-11 11:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure that uve got ur friends there for u. they will help c heer u up. u cant stay wiv someone if ur not happy or dont want to be wiv them. just tell him the truth, if u want to stay friends then tell him that.
2007-02-11 10:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋