She previously cheated on him, he moved on and out of her life although she thought her wealth would keep him making no excuses for her actions. Every once in a while she emails him to see if they can hook up .He conveys it to me out of disgust and he then writes her back that he is not interested.
I am Christian and although I try not to be non-judgmental on this woman's character, I cannot understand how a woman can degrade herself that way (she is also a mother)
I do not want my fiance to be rude because I seriously pity this woman but I am out of ideas
2007-02-11 02:54:53 · 9 answers · asked by IPnlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and he cannot change his email due to business reasons.
2007-02-11 04:13:46 · update #1
Let your man handle this. This will show him that you trust him as well as give you a chance to see his dedication to you at work.
2007-02-11 03:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should block her emails. Regardless of her character she is trying to get him back by any means possible. A lot of women dont consider engaged men as officially off the market and will see him as fair game until the wedding date - I am betting thats how she sees it.
2007-02-11 10:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to irritate you knowing that you will come to know of her emails to him. Now that this is clear, it is up to you how u handle it.
But a few suggestions: 1) Ask him to set a filter/rule so that her mails go straight to trash and send a mail saying that such a rule is being set on his computer.
2) If she doesn't stop, warn her that she is going to face troubles and if not stopped yet, get her number and post it on a forum asking for men to call that number for a hot night. She will stop then.
2007-02-11 11:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. could she see think therapy? If you really want her out of the picture all I can think is maybe a restraining order.That depends on threats and violence mostly. My friend did several times with her ex. Hope things get better.
2007-02-11 11:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by Artsy 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control other people. I'm sitting here trying to think of other things to write but as I realize, there's really nothing more to say. Think about that as long as I have and pray on it. I'm sure that you'll come to the same conclusion.
2007-02-11 10:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to block her email so that he no longer receives it. That is the simplest thing to do. If your soon to be respects your wishes he will do that and that should be the end of it. Good Luck
2007-02-11 11:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by truckerman96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to **** off. Seriously, she's the one who cheated on him. Email her and tell her she blew her chance and to leave you two alone
ACTUALLY! WTF! Why doesn't he just BLOCK her email address?? If he was truly over her, and if he was annoyed by the fact that she keeps emailing him, he would have blocked her LONG ago.
2007-02-11 10:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to ask yourself why he keeps telling you that he is still getting e-mails from this person. Then you have to ask yourself - and him - why he doesn't just delete any e-mails he receives from her or, better yet, check her e-mails off as spam.
2007-02-11 11:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him change his email address and not tell her.
2007-02-11 10:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋