Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

Does that mean she is funny?Just curious !

2007-02-11 01:04:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My marraige is going through a real rocky patch and I am finding it harder and harder to comunicate with my husband ..he just flies of the handle at the slightist thing.I dont know if we can work it out but I am at the end of my tether.We have 3 kids age 6 ,8 ,10 and I only earn a very small amount(although when we married i earned more than him and gave up to look after kids)and he says if we split theres no way me and the kids can stay in our house .It is in joint names but i couldnt afford the morgage on my own.I thought the woman and kids always stayed in the house but he says I am wrong .I couldnt put our kids through moving as well as loosing there dad .He says he loves me but never shows it and when I try to talk he thinks I am having a go ...Help.

2007-02-11 01:01:53 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

By the way where are you at?

2007-02-11 01:01:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with a guy off and on for just over two years and then it just didn't work out any more
I was single for about a year and a half before this guy I knew finally told me how he felt about me for six years
I hezatated to start anything with him because I still had strong feelings for my x but then at the same time I didn't wanna be alone and I didn't wanna hurt any more
it was going good at first with this new guy but then I couldn't stop thinking about my x and it's driving me crazy
I wanna be over my x but I just can't seem to let him go

2007-02-11 01:01:38 · 9 answers · asked by danity0414 2 in Singles & Dating

where are you you weasel

2007-02-11 01:00:01 · 1 answers · asked by lulu 3 in Family

2007-02-11 00:57:55 · 14 answers · asked by terra 4 in Friends

2007-02-11 00:57:47 · 8 answers · asked by Greenpoint 1 in Singles & Dating

For example, I was dating a girl...she was very slim, but wore big clothes, which I figured was to try to make herself look a bit bigger. The first time I saw her naked, I was shocked. Very small frame, and these big breasts I never expected...at least a C...maybe D cup.

2007-02-11 00:57:14 · 2 answers · asked by polli_d 1 in Singles & Dating

well..........................

2007-02-11 00:56:43 · 14 answers · asked by hottiegurlhottie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

... and one of the most loving things a spouse can do is decide to build security into a relationship. Do you agree? What's your personal take on this quote? The quote is from a book by the way.

2007-02-11 00:54:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 00:53:59 · 13 answers · asked by tango c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

From the very beginning, my fiance and I wanted a small wedding, but had different ideas about small... He was thinking 10, I was thinking 40 or so. So we are compromising, but I am stressing out about it and could use others opinions. My fiance is just inviting his parents, siblings, and best friend.

My grandparents have always been there for me and I want them to come, so I'm definitely inviting them, but in order for everything to work out (rides, etc. to where the wedding is), I am also inviting my aunts and uncles. But now my family wants me to invite my cousins... It this continues we'll have 100 people there! I already feel rude inviting many more than my fiance, but I told him that his extended family is more than welcome but he just doesn't want a big wedding. And I would like a few of my best friends there too.

Does anyone see a happy medium here? We also already chose a place, and 30 guests is the max. allowed. Is it rude to not invite the cousins (they're all over 18)?

2007-02-11 00:53:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Im in 8th grade and I have a moving up dance in the spring. Im not sure if it looked wierd If I go with my friiends. OR does the boy ask the girl to these kinds of things. Or does the girl ask the boys???

2007-02-11 00:53:24 · 13 answers · asked by ~Jules~ 2 in Singles & Dating

My family and I argue everyday constintly. First my dad will do something to annoy my mom, then my 2 older brothers will argue, and I argue with one of them constintly about the things he does to bug me....like throwing pillows at me or saying ''yo momma.'' And he'll go in my bed room at night while I'm asleep and talk on my cell phone knowing I have only a few night and weekend minutes left. My dad always ignore me when I'm trying to tell him something, and my sister calls from South Gate every 5 minutes and bug both me and my mom. My other brother also keeps irratating me by telling me and complaining to me about how we get to do the stuff he didn't do when he was our age. And now we're starting to do it so much it's like a daily routine. Is it true that a family who argues alot love each other more than most families?

2007-02-11 00:51:37 · 27 answers · asked by bbnicole104 2 in Family

see each other when you first start dating...
just curious me and my new boyfriend see each other 4 or 5 times a week --just didnt want to burn out or anything

appreciate your advice

2007-02-11 00:51:11 · 10 answers · asked by amazing 2 in Singles & Dating

So I like this girl (lets call her Susan) and I told her I liked her a while back and she said she kinda liked me too, but then we got in a big fight and I told her I didn't like her anymore (which I thought was true, but wasn't), and she said she didn't either (after I said I didn't)
We are back to being really good friends, and she's dated one or two guys since I told her I didn't like her anymore, and now I realized I still like her, and I don't know if she likes me. She seems like she likes this one guy, but other times it seems like she likes me.

She gives lots of people hugs, and it seems that she most always gives me a hug first, then other guys.

I also heard from some other girls that are kinda her friends that while they ( the girls ) were making a hot/not/etc. list, Susan was the one to add me as a hunk, and I'm pretty attractive, but I don't think I'm a hunk, but she added me as one, putting me in the same group as the other guy I think she might like

Does she like me?

2007-02-11 00:51:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i and my long distance boyfriend, we kind of broke up months ago, but not a clear cut, he still called me on my cell from time to time. he is not internet savvy like me, so i will just see him get online once in a while in msn (he uses automatic sign-in). i deleted him but not blocking him so many times, but coulda help adding him back as i wanna see if he is online. just now, again, i saw him online, but he never talked to me. i m kind of upset, and i think i should really delete him from my list for good maybe. should i?

2007-02-11 00:50:57 · 5 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i think that i did one of the stupidest things to tell the girl i like that i liked her. i asked one of my friends to give her a note. when she got it she looked suprised and then said that it was sweet of me. do you think she like's me?? i'm in 7th grade and she also stares at me sometimes and also gives me compliments.

2007-02-11 00:50:19 · 11 answers · asked by uscdude 1 in Friends

I like this guy who is a christian, and he goes to church but i don't and i believe in jesus. My brother and sister go to a christian school but my parents have just started to send the rest of the family to a christian school. I didn't have the education but I believe and like a guy who is strongly into his church we are still getting to know eachother, is it too late for me to want to know more about jesus and get involved as i am really interested but feel out of place as i wasn't brought up with jesus from a young age as my brother and sister are now. This guy and I are currently seeing eachother we both like eachother very much, he has told me that his parents used to go to church but don't now but still believe as i believe but haven't been brought up going to church. We have alot of small things in common as we are still getting to know eachother, he is rather sweet blows me kisses when i leave. We talk so much about life, but i don't know how to tell if he really accepts me.

2007-02-11 00:49:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

want to show a women friend i appreciate her, but there is no real love connection. you think she will understand what i am doing?

2007-02-11 00:49:45 · 4 answers · asked by robert c 3 in Singles & Dating

Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.

One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.

Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughts out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to the time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him? I still enjoy having sex with him and enjoy making him dinners, spending nights at home alone but the smallest things are driving me crazy!This is my first non dramatic relationship where I actually trust the guy could this be why maybe cause it is so unfamiliar? Althought the smallest things about him are driving me crazy. From the way he yawns to the way he says "I love you" - Cold this be cause my mind is analyzing everything right now?

I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.

How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.

Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit, but I started taking it 2 months ago so I'm sure I have the full effect...thanks!

2007-02-11 00:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-11 00:48:28 · 14 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 00:48:24 · 7 answers · asked by alex a 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ike ive never taken care of myself before. I dont like feeling hostile.

2007-02-11 00:47:07 · 13 answers · asked by Navassa 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to propose to my girlfriend at my high school graduation!!! Is that a good place or bad place?

2007-02-11 00:46:48 · 6 answers · asked by shortyjay123 1 in Weddings

i have a serious problem i cant talk to women, im 25 and i have never even had a date, i am just that shy, when i fist meet women for like 20 seconds there is no problem, but then i just fall into my shell, i really need help how can i overcome this, if i dont there is no hope, dont just say

2007-02-11 00:45:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or partner?

2007-02-11 00:44:39 · 6 answers · asked by TOO HOT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 00:44:14 · 9 answers · asked by Jim b 1 in Weddings

What do I do ? I love him, and I am not the jealous type, but what do you guys think of this situation ?

2007-02-11 00:43:37 · 25 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

There a woman that I have gone out with 4 times but she says we are just friends. I have told her that I am interested in more than just friends and when we go out she considers them dates. She always initiates phone calls, text messages etc. Our 'dates' end in a hug never a kiss. I am totally into this girl and I'm not sure if she is just taking it slow or not interested romantically. My question, should I send her something on Valentines day, or am I fighting a losing battle?

2007-02-11 00:42:10 · 12 answers · asked by Rote 2 in Singles & Dating